Any advice on day game?

asiam_man · 2019-09-30T18:37:14+00:00

I prefer it to, for example, nightclub. Yeah, you can almost always find a SNL at a club, but I find that you have to drop your standards because at a club, the ratio of guys to girls is so high. On the street, if you have the balls, you can approach a super good looking girl and there is essentially no competition.

In my experience, direct approach works the best, especially with really good looking girls. "Hey, I wanted to tell you I find you very pretty." This signals that you're confident. You have to practice this because you have to deliver it confidently, genuinely, and slowly. If you rush the words, or you have a silly grin on your face because you're nervous, or if your body language telegraphs that you believe she's going to walk away, it won't work. Also, usually, you want to start with a time constraint, that will improve your success rate.

If you're doing this in front of other people where they can hear you, it often works even better, because you are demonstrate even more confidence. In the middle of a subway, for example, where the whole car can hear you. Yeah, can you pull that off?

Indirect approaches like "hey, do you know where the subway is?" doesn't work quite as well. They know what you're doing, and it shows lack of confidence. But those can work too, if you quickly transition with "btw, you're really cute" or "oh hey, you're really cute when you smile like that."

I usually only open really good looking women on the street - 8's and above, and I have excellent success.

rich_god · 2019-09-30T16:41:27+00:00

Approaching people on the streets is the lowest-percentage approach, except maybe approaching people who are working.

It's only good as a practice for rejection, and having the courage to approach. Even if you're good at it, it's still a high number game. People don't like to be approached on the streets. If you like it, at least volonteer for an association so your ability to handle rejection becomes somewhat useful.

Once it becomes easy for you to approach people on the streets, just stop doing it and start meeting people in places that make sense.

smoothmax · 2019-09-30T19:30:49+00:00

Whenever a girl starts turning away from me to disengage I know that I've come off as too nervous, too talkative, too needy and not being enough of these three things: fun, relaxed and attentive.

Except for the actual physical stop and the opening line, "Excuse me ..." daygame cold approaches are virtually identical to interacting with all other women in your life. You have to be fun, relaxed and attentive when talking to your Mom, niece, coffee shop girls, classmates, co-workers and everyone else. It's 90% the same as interacting with guys too.

So you can practice almost everything about daygame approaches every day with almost everyone you meet. Saying hi warmly, talking and listening, setting time constraints, not being boring or nervous. You can talk about future plans like "let's get together to study" or "see you tomorrow" and you can practice kino by shaking guys hands and giving females a hug.

Title	Any advice on day game?
Author	axe122
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	September 30, 2019 3:40 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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