I previously made a post about a personal success story. It was more like a thank note to the community and no advice or a giving back.

So I decided to make another post about a topic I feel competent giving advice about.

I am not a huge player or something, but I have had my fair share of experiences with women and I always got great feedback about my kissing and I developed some kind of techniques that were quite usefull for building up some sexual tensions.

1.) There is alread a lot of good advice on this sub about eye contact, kino and flirting in general check it out!

2.) A kiss on the cheek is a great "test" if she would be comfortable with something more intimate. Come up with any kind of ridicoulus excuse to hug her and just kiss her on the cheek. Check her reaction and keep going from there.

3.) In a club you can make use of the loudness by getting in very close and make your cheeks touch while talking directly into her ear. If she stays that close she is definetly comfortable with you.

4.) There are two ways for me to engage into a kiss: 4.1) If I have had a good talk with the girl and I am quite sure she is comfortable with me I just go for it. Easy as that. 4.2) I am trying to make her kiss me. This does work, but not always reliably. For this you need to be sure about her attraction and basically you start teasing her, get in close, stare at her lips, pretend to kiss her, but playfull make it a hug. Make her really want to kiss you and she will eventually do it and it is great!

5.) Tease her! This worked great for me: I manage to kiss her, but always stop after a short amount of time and continue the conversation. Eventually I go in for a kiss again, but stop just before our lips touch and wait for her to close the distance. If she does I pull pack just a little. I watch her reaction (Most of the time a "how dare you" grin) an comit to a passionate kiss.

6.) The neck! Well a lot of women are quite sensitive in this area and like to be kissed there. Slide your hand down her neck and follow up with your mouth, not quite touching it, teasing her a little and eventually kiss her gently.

7.) Adapt to her style of kissing, but keep it interesting and diverse, by stopping and continuing, different amounts of pressure, more or less tongue touching, moving to her neck, sliding your hands down her back, grabbing her like she is yours, pushing her against a wall, whatever. Be creative and do not hold the kiss in the same spot, in the same rythm forever!

I hope this helps! Cheers!

PS: I am not a native english speaker and I am posting this from phone without any spellchecks so if you find any errors keep them :)!