Hey seddit, I was recently talking to a friend who is a natural at PUA and we came to some interesting conclusions.

This friend I was talking to used to be really socially awkward (Indian, chess nerd, no filter). So I was surprised to hear about his recent successes with women. I asked him what his clicking moment was and he said it was when he started approaching game with the same attitude he takes when he plays chess. I personally don't know shit about chess so I can't really reiterate what he said but it made me think. When I thought about my clicking moment when all the PUA material seemed to internalize, was when I applied my passion of freestyle rapping to it. Sounds silly I know but it uses remarkably similar techniques, being quick witted, being in the moment, the aspect of improvisation etc.

I also read comments here and there on this subreddit where people say. "PUA is like riding a bike..." or "PUA is like a sword fight..." etc. I think that PUA is like anything else you find worth doing. If you have any sort of passion in your life, try utilizing that mentality in the field and see how it helps you out

TL;DR: Utilize the mindstate you have when your doing something you love to help you get into state