Wanting a threesome

grrinchas · 2020-01-11T16:45:56+00:00

Of course not.

Just go out with your bf. Engage with people. Find a girl you like and start to flirt with her. Make sure she sees that you are happy with a guy. She will understand what's going on.

BetrayedUchiha · 2020-01-11T18:58:24+00:00

What a lucky guy.

Imperator_Pyra · 2020-01-11T17:06:45+00:00

I used to swing a bit. Never had a threesome with another girl though. Openly bisexual girls willing to have a threesome with a couple are called "unicorns" by people in the swinger lifestyle - because you are just as likely to meet a girl like that as you are likely to meet a unicorn.

Good luck, though.

jackzander · 2020-01-11T18:41:31+00:00

If you're just approaching strangers in bars,

“hi would you like my boyfriend to tie you up with me”

really isn't too wild of an approach. People go to bars because they're looking for new experiences and new people.

If you're trying to find someone within your existing social circles to play around with, it takes a little more careful managing so you don't earn a reputation for being that couple. Honestly, conversation is your best tool.

Casually bringing up things like same-sex attraction, bisexuality, nonmonogamy or rope play is your best bet for litmus testing other girls. You should be able to tell the difference between a politely conversational response and an interested response. This requires some amount of Living Out Loud, but this is a good thing if you're trying to normalize atypical behavior.

And if you haven't been with another girl already, it wouldn't hurt to get that under your belt before you start shopping for threesomes.

bllewellyn_1 · 2020-01-11T16:44:28+00:00

Never know until you try. Go ahead and make a new friend you can open up to.

D1DgRyk5vjaKWKMgs · 2020-01-11T18:13:11+00:00

get to the scene or local munch/meetup

Ryse_0 · 2020-01-11T20:24:07+00:00

Threefun and feeld are swingers apps where my girl and I have had luck finding single girls and couples to play with. Mind you these are the two best out there at this time. You can also just put pics of the both of you on bumble and tinder. Trust me, you’ll get offers sooner or later. It’s just about patience. You want quality experiences over quantity.

You can also see about your local swingers club. Usually there will be some single girls there or couples ready and willing to play.

pdxtrader · 2020-01-11T21:29:48+00:00

Basically you get the 2 people together you want to have a threesome with and take turns giving each other 4 hand massages until you guys start making out

scarrax · 2020-01-11T22:12:36+00:00

Go to a sex club or look into breaking into your local nonmonogamy/swinging scene. You'll find plenty of likeminded people there

Title	Wanting a threesome
Author	gracekavanagh4
Upvotes	16
Comments	10
Date	January 11, 2020 4:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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