Warm Up before going out

JourneyToBeKing · 2022-10-23T18:05:51+00:00

I learned this weird but useful ritual from a PUA coach in Moscow. As we were walking towards night game street, he showed me some landmark (sth like traffic light) on the street and told me that he doesn't care how but he wants me to make myself feel slightly better once we reach that landmark. He said it could be thinking of a good memory from my past, it can be an imagination of achieving my dreams, singing my favorite song, or thinking of eating my favorite food. Doesn't matter.

We did that for 3 consecutive landmarks. Sounds silly but it actually works well by contributing to your positive self-perception.

gulaschgel · 2022-10-23T20:28:57+00:00

Ask people for directions to some location, do that with like 5 people and you should be considerably more social

abdeezy112 · 2022-10-24T03:40:56+00:00

I watch stand up comedy or clips of it before I go out. Get into a super social state and start talking to anyone before I talk to girls.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-10-23T19:51:48+00:00

I don't go out just to approach women. I go about my day, and if I happen to cross paths with a lady that returns my eye contact and smile, then I will approach. Only when I'm on vacation though. Open relationship rules I have to follow

HauntingAssignment67 · 2022-10-24T02:32:06+00:00

general bullshitting with friends and freestyle rapping. Helps get the mind in a sharp, whitty state

Nefertiti2021 · 2022-10-23T18:59:26+00:00

JERK OFF

Jandiboy · 2022-10-24T06:59:27+00:00

Cold shower and meditation

Dorsiflexionkey · 2022-10-24T08:37:53+00:00

I feel like putting so much pressure on yourself may psyche you out if you're a certain personality type.

The only things I really prepare to do are try to eat well and train well that week before going out (thicc boi) if not year round. Get a haircut 2 days beforehand, shave (if you can't grow a proper beard). New or at the very least clean clothes that fit you well and look exceptionally good, this part is probably the most important with the haircut being equal or a close 2nd because this shit will give you confidence. And then a couple pre drinks to ease the tension, then I just chill tell myself I don't need to do anything tonight or I will set myself small goals like talk to 5 women, or start up 10 conversations with random people while being able to smile and listen to what they have to say. Then I say to myself my main goal of the night is to have fun with my boys, laugh and enjoy the companionship and focusing on them and fun.

This shit transformed how I went out when I was younger, once the working out and fashion stuff started to show visible results I could go out and get like 3-5+ women approaching me per night. Nowadays I don't really do it since I'm happily taken but that's how I went from 0 girls to a fair few "looks" in my direction :)

MissionAd399 · 2022-10-25T21:53:36+00:00

I review notes in my phone. I have openers that I gotta remember to use cause a lotta times I just end up improvising. Sometimes I gotta remind myself to make eye contact cause usually I’m not trying to look into my friend’s eyes cause pause but then when switching to women I’ll forget. Overall nothing too deep, my real warm ups are the first few approaches

Title	Warm Up before going out
Author	blaubarschbube27
Upvotes	4
Comments	15
Date	October 23, 2022 5:09 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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