Being a man there are aspects of my body that affect my behavior in specific ways. When not kept in check they can impede success with women.

The first is being shallow. Since looks have such a strong influence on my attraction to a girl I have a tendency to give them a pass on poor behavioral traits. This is bad for attraction because a lot of girls are turned on by guys who will put them in their place. If you don't care what a girl behaves like as long as she's hot she will just walk all over you or your approach will be so lacking that she won't be interested at all.

The second is wanting to ejaculate too much. Not only is this bad because it kills your motivation to be successful in life but it also teaches you bad habits about sex. Since seduction is basically just a metaphor for how you have sex, excessively masturbating will just lead you to behave in a way that will show that you are just going to jirate in her for a few minutes then bust.

The third is not being born into abundance of sex. Since most women have no difficulty getting sex they have very little neediness about it. Most guys never figure out the behaviors that women find attractive and thus live in a sexual desert. Neediness is a very sexually unattractive trait and seduction is a very abstract skill. Because men have little access to sex they will pursue a particular lifestyle not because it is what they enjoy the most, but because they think it will be attractive to women.

The fourth is based on reproductive systems. Since women have periods they are forced to take responsibility for their bodies early in life. Guys have no such issue and take a lot longer to adopt any responsibility in life, if they ever do. Adopting responsibility makes you more centered as a person, which is an attractive trait.