Ways to lower flake rate

bl1y · 2013-11-02T18:49:28+00:00

Build a solid connection before #closing, and read the text game guides on the sidebar.

Tumble85 · 2013-11-03T21:29:08+00:00

Always go for specific plans, and have them be something fun - bowling, laser tag, arcade, pinball... whatever you think she'd be into (and get to know her a little bit to know what has the highest chance of 'yes').

Numbers don't mean shit - if I get just a number with no somewhat specific plan, I don't expect anything.

Basically the hierarchy is:

Plans - specific plans on a specific time and day to do something together. This is the least likely flake. "Hey, grab a drink and come bowling with me this Wednesday. That work for you?" If yes, you have a date. If no: "Oh, when this week works for you?", and then you'll get a solid answer of a specific day, or she'll make an excuse in which case you know she's not as into you as you thought she was. Still get her number, but consider it somewhat dead.
Plans to make plans - "Hey, let's grab a drink and hop around a bit this week, let me have your number." This indicates that you intend to take her out, and she'll probably say yes and give you her number but it's leaving a bigger out for her later on.
Number - girls hand their numbers out like crazy these days, so you have to make great connections and even then they still flake for a myriad of reasons. She isn't nearly as invested in giving her number out as guys are about getting them.

Ben_KA · 2013-11-02T20:26:19+00:00

Things you can do to help (in order of impact):

1.) Make a bigger impression in the first interaction.

If she thinks you are the coolest, most fun, most attractive guy on the planet, she will not flake on you. Period.

2.) Hook up.

If you have sex with a girl the night you meet her and you're good at sex (dominant, dirty talking, etc.), you will see her again. A makeout isn't as guaranteed, but it will help.

3.) Create a standards monologe about how you hate flakey behavior.

This will do wonders for preventing flaking.

4.) Make specific plans.

Instead of asking for a number, make specific plans and THEN ask for the number.

Title	Ways to lower flake rate
Author	SovereignsUnknown
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	November 2, 2013 6:38 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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