What are your absolute best closing techniques?

robot_army_mutiny · 2013-04-12T05:09:13+00:00

First, ABC: Always Be Closing.

Then, don't close. She'll chase you home.

What I mean is, be witty and charming, display high value, qualify her, build rapport, etc. all while escalating kino - all the basic seduction stuff. But don't escalate kino aggressively. Do it like it is an afterthought. Like when you first hold her hand, have the mindset of "oh, yeah. This girl is into me, I should throw her a bone and hold her hand." When you kiss her, be the first one to pull away. When she looks a lil disappointed, smirk and go back in, but then pull away again and leave her wanting more. Go on talking instead of making out more. Doesn't matter about what, all she is thinking is how she can get you to kiss her again.

Just keep teasing her like that, building up the sexual tension so that she's the one wanting to close you. You can even have her in your place and not try to fuck her there (while still teasing her and amping up the sexuality, though).

Soon, she'll make sure the two of you end up in an appropriate venue, and she'll be ripping your clothes off. Sometimes, you do have to give girls a little help in the right direction, if they are the really shy type. But it only takes a tiny push.

When you keep teasing and building the sexual tension, but not actively trying to "push a little further," it makes women crazy with lust. You're making out, and she loves it, but you're on the couch and haven't felt her up yet - she's not used to that. Usually, by now guys are clumsily trying to undo her bra or stick their hand down her pants.

Letting her have one or two drinks can help her feel more free to go with it, but I like to cut it off at two - I don't like fucking really drunk girls anymore.

I actually learned this from my old self. I lost my virginity at 16, and have had regular girlfriends/sex since. So when I first started doing PUA, the amount of "action", or whatever you want to call it, went down for me because I started doing all of this bogus PUA stuff. My problem had always been meeting new women - I didn't have an issue getting with girls I already knew. I had always been kind of shy-but-not-shy with them, and typically girls always made the first move with me. Later, they would ask me things like "why did it take so long for you to finally fuck me?!!" and stuff like that.

So when I was trying to internalize all the PUA routines and attitudes, and getting good at opening but not getting very far with women, I started asking myself what I was doing wrong. I realized that I had tried to completely throw away what were essentially really good Comfort and Seduction methods that I had somehow picked up naturally, and trying to force everything from some text I read on some forum somewhere.

So my Ah-ha moment was realizing that while I definitely needed to learn how to attract women, I was already a natural at comfort and seduction.

Some tips: Learn how to undo a bra fast and smooth with one hand. Learn how to kiss creatively without mouth-raping them. Learn how to make moves that transition so smoothly they seem completely natural. Learn how to act like her wanting to fuck your brains out is completely the norm and totally expected. In fact, you think it's kind of cute how horny she is and like to fuck with her by teasing her. Etc. - it's just more of that "be the prize" kind of attitude. More of a mindset really than any specific set of steps. Hope that helps.

itsmevichet · 2013-04-12T14:14:21+00:00

If you've managed to get her naked, get really good at eating out.

Trust me. It's the best low calorie midnight snack that money can't always buy.

Anyway, yeah. If a girl is letting you test the waters, that's your audition. You need to nail that. You can be awesome in bed without using your penis, and if you can do that, she'll let you do ANYTHING.

Source: me and my scoreboard.

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-04-12T04:59:39+00:00

I would say my best closing technique is putting my penis in her vagina. But that could just be me, it might not work for you.

zlsir92 · 2013-04-12T04:37:57+00:00

one that's worked for me was that I had a pack of "expensive" cigarretes with me. Met a girl at a bar, talked kino'd went outside and told her, "these smokes are awesome, im gonna have them later, my place or yours?"

She said hers.... Didn't even smoke :P

frankdux9 · 2013-04-12T16:13:19+00:00

Assuming you mean you are already past the early part of the date and escalation touching etc..

Best closing/get a girl to want to fuck me move is a combination of two things for me. 1. Similar to what robot army said, get good at teasing girls. In my case I do this with kissing. Kiss a girl a bit, nothing too deep, then pull back and look her in the eyes a bit, maybe give her a smirk. Kiss a bit more and then make sure you are the one who disengages from the kiss rather than her, make her want more. Also being a good kisser really helps a heap.

After you have her wanting another great move everyone knows is simply taking her hand and putting it on your package. Even if you are not naked yet, her hand on your package outside the jeans is sure to make her want it. I generally do this in a pretty masculine way, no gentle shit for this one.

XXCUPZ · 2013-04-13T02:23:31+00:00

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Title	What are your absolute best closing techniques?
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Date	April 12, 2013 4:05 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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