what are your biggest frustrations when it comes to meeting women?

whoizz · 2016-06-23T16:55:28+00:00

Meeting women generally isn't so bad. They're people too and all you have to do is strike up a conversation. Now, if you're trying to have a relationship, that's where you can run into trouble.

Go on a date and everything goes pretty well, then they want nothing to do with you -- just a free meal. Meet a great girl, has tons of the same interests, but then you eventually realize that there is a part of her that's stubborn, crazy, overly sensitive, what have you and then you become afraid to have a conversation because you feel like you can't talk about anything because it always comes back to that point of contention between you.

Meet a girl, go on a date, she's everything you could want and more, but she wants nothing to do with you after a week because there's an ex that she keeps in the back of her mind that she'll never be truly over and he just texted her "Hey :)"

Or her family is batshit crazy, or she has reservations about sex, or not enough reservations about sex, she's amazing but she suffers from chronic depression, she's a wild free spirit but hooked on drugs, she's super smart and beautiful but she has a thing for pegging.

You name it man, it's a possibility. The key, I know, is to take the good with the bad and hope that her quirks turn charming instead of annoying. Or whatever, but shit's hard man. I'll never settle, so I don't know if I'll die alone or not, but at least I'm not going to make myself miserable for some tart who wants a penis that hands out cash.

Monkey_Jerk · 2016-06-23T22:48:28+00:00

The socializing part.

DaygameCoach · 2016-06-23T16:49:58+00:00

Usually, time and money. Right now, I'm good since I'm in an LTR.

Why do you ask?

Woujo · 2016-06-23T18:29:14+00:00

I can tell you as a guy who writes PUA stuff that a lot of people want specific, step-by-step PUA tips. When do I text her, what do I say, where should I invite her. Very specific stuff. And make sure it works - in other words, make sure it is stuff that you've tried many times and you have a high success rate on. I couldn't give a fuck about "hey I did this one time and it worked so I should always do this."

bolxrex · 2016-06-24T17:41:48+00:00

Too little texting seems to result in flakes/cancellations nowadays. Too much texting kills attraction. How to keep interest up in an oversaturated market with everyone to trending toward instant gratification via digital communication.

Title	what are your biggest frustrations when it comes to meeting women?
Author	amoresdecristo
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	June 23, 2016 4:17 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4phja5/what_are_your_biggest_frustrations_when_it_comes/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/what-are-your-biggest-frustrations-when-it-comes.1408611 https://theredarchive.com/post/1408611

Comments