What are your MOST IMPORTANT tips for a first date?

Live_it_up_321 · 2017-05-25T18:17:30+00:00

HAVE FUN.

diskempt · 2017-05-25T17:42:09+00:00

Connect with her on an emotional level, some people just don't vibe and that's ok. Be yourself, and be cool and casual, not stressed or thinking too hard about it. Basically, go with the flow

Woujo · 2017-05-25T18:41:35+00:00

https://www.woujo.com/blog/2016/5/17/how-to-succeed-on-a-date

kalolilo · 2017-05-25T19:51:30+00:00

In chronological order from most important

Build rapport
Talk about D.A.R.E., Don't talk about R.A.P.E.
Kino
Eye contact
Qualification
Push and pull

2017-05-26T03:04:27+00:00

A date is a lot like a job interview. If you are nervous you make the interviewer nervous. If you are relaxed and fun then the girl has fun too. There's no surefire method to pull a girl despite what PUA's tell you, attraction makes no sense its 90% brain stem and 10% gray matter. Having that 10% on your side does help though, so thats where personality and confidence comes in, as well as a GENUINE interest in her and what she has to say and what she is thinking. Girls are really turned off by a guy who seems to live in another world and completely ignores what she's saying.

MistaFrees · 2017-05-25T20:03:05+00:00

You need to find the right girl, the right girl can make a date go amazing and a shit girl can make you feel like you're going to run off while she's in the bathroom.

Just keep looking and practicing, it'll come in time. Tinder is great to just practice dating, I've been on so many 'first dates' it feels like I go on auto pilot. It's great practice to figure out what to talk about, what works, what doesn't work, how to keep a conversation going, how to change topics either smooth or abrupt, how to work in some kino and just how to be yourself.

Don't rely on all the things that are on this subreddit and seduction community, eventually you're going to have to be you and you need to just embody the principles from here instead of executing them like a script. I am a firm believer in inner game, I go on dates with girls and I tell them I like biking, backpacking, lifting, my job, traveling, eating crazy foods, etc. Honestly, most of the girls I go out with are boring compared to me and my lifestyle. Just be the fucking man, live a dope lifestyle and don't worry about it.

Title	What are your MOST IMPORTANT tips for a first date?
Author	SrpskoJaje
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	May 25, 2017 5:36 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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