What changed?

Club__Paradise · 2022-07-31T12:36:41+00:00

This happens man. All girls at the club will usually draw the line somewhere. For some it could be at touching, for others it might be at making out, others at leaving their friends, others at going home with you etc.

It could just be that you reached their limit. They had no desire to do anything beyond casual kissing. However, that's not to say you can't go further with the right game.

In my experience when this happens to me, it's because I've gotten boring. We just keep dancing and making out. You need to keep changing it up to excite her. If it's early in the night, kiss her a little and then leave, tell her you'll find her later (always aim to be the one to leave rather than have her leave) then go and talk to other girls, make it look like you're having a good time with everyone before coming back to her later on. If it's getting later in the night, rely on some good kino. Touching, making her more turned on etc. If you can tell she's feeling it then try to pull her somewhere more intimate, like a booth, table etc. From this point you want to rely on talking, hand holding, kissing etc. Really try to build an emotional connection and level of comfort. If that goes well then you should be primed to pull her from the venue and back to yours.

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-31T16:40:49+00:00

Girls just go through the motions. They might kiss because it's the thing to do. They don't want to be put on display or feel like kissing is just showing off the dude they just met. Avoid showboating. Unless they want to... Just understand it's really just showboating, to make you look cool. She's marking her turf in that sense.

I wouldn't really kiss a girl until towards the end of the night. Not a full on make out kiss, either. Save that for when it's more private.

RideTheRim · 2022-07-31T20:49:39+00:00

A lot of women go out with the intention to "make out with cute guys" but not have sex.

sparklingwinepapi92 · 2022-08-01T00:13:19+00:00

It could be anything. Sometimes women at clubs draw a hard limit on what they will do with guys. Other times they realize they're not feeling as much as they thought. Also, shit happens with their friends (i.e. one gets too drunk, one wants to go home, one starts crying over her ex boyfriend in the bathroom, etc)

Don't take it personally, just enjoy it for what it is, and be proud of yourself for even getting that far.

IAmSeverlyDepressedd · 2022-08-01T02:01:19+00:00

Getting daps from other lads? What does this mean?

Title	What changed?
Author	epilamun
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Comments	12
Date	July 31, 2022 10:52 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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