What did I do wrong?

brado456 · 2020-04-08T06:33:51+00:00

You’re overthinking this. Just don’t care at all. Not one bit. If she comes over and says hi have a chat. But if she doesn’t want to talk don’t, if you’re busy don’t either. Sounds like you need to work on your self esteem.

Good luck 👌

earsurgery9 · 2020-04-08T07:44:35+00:00

You're probably just not her type. Game isn't some magic skill where you can get any girl you want. Not even REMOTELY close! You probably did nothing at all wrong. The same 'game' on a girl who is into you would havv been fine

Don't overthink it or buy into this 'pua' stuff too much. It's all a numbers game. Even for the 'best'

SantaReatham · 2020-04-08T08:25:24+00:00

So on at least two occasions you've asked girls that you work with for their numbers and they've not given it to you. I'd say call it a day in terms of approaching girls at work. It can be tricky to navigate even when it 'works'. Continuously hitting on girls at work could land you without a job, let alone a date. There's a whole world out there, no need to s**t on your doorstep!

boodie_1961 · 2020-04-08T08:55:39+00:00

Flirting at the workplace is not a good idea.

greatlifeahead · 2020-04-08T09:07:53+00:00

You should progress slower at work. People try to be friendly to co-workers and that can make things harder because you don't get a rejection. I would just banter with her and try to see if the attraction grows. Also try to let things progress more naturally and try not to seek her our.

Also you sound needy. You just met her and you are already worrying if you could see her and even asking her where did she go. That sounds almost like a stalker.

hahafags81 · 2020-04-08T13:35:41+00:00

You were needy, the fact that you tried so hard to make her laugh proves that. She bottom line doesn’t find you attractive so nothing you do will change that. Move on.

LaserSpud · 2020-04-08T13:49:37+00:00

Hey man. I’ve been in a similar situation before and tbh, not tryna be rude or anything but you’re overthinking. Keep calm and collect your thoughts. If she walk past you, greet her. If she doesn’t look engage in the conversation, then dont force yourself. You’ll make yourself feel bad. If you can, ask her whether she wants to grab a drink or smth. Im sure you’ll be able to do it, stay strong bro 💪

quinnmcd · 2020-04-08T17:07:31+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

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Title	What did I do wrong?
Author	NotAHippo4
Upvotes	3
Comments	15
Date	April 8, 2020 5:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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