Note this is a really long post. But what I'm describing takes time and I feel like it can really help some people.

Now that the NFL (and Premier League soccer :-) ) are back in season, I've been looking at things from a more "strategic" viewpoint. I've been looking at seduction too, and I came to the conclusion I've been missing out greatly by not formulating a well-thought, detailed, and specific game plan about all of this.

Let's take the idea that seduction is a game somewhat literally for the sake of this analogy (If you have an objective and opposition in the way of reaching said objective, you can call it a game on a rudimentary level). Looking at seduction as a game, I thought to myself and realized every coach of a team formulates a game plan before going out on the field. Every military leader has a strategy, every president an agenda. So why are we guys going out into the field with nothing similar?

Seddit is merely a giant resource for formulating your own game plan. Many articles are concepts, and some are other people's game plans they've come up with. Others are a hybrid, showing you the simple foundations most people can ultimately agree on. Just like how in both football and soccer you want to keep a balanced attack and maintain possession as much as possible, most PUAs know you want to maintain an assertive position, look a girl in the eyes, engage in kino, and so on).

That seems great, but how do you formulate your own game plan? A Google search brought up some things, albeit none too specific to dating (nonetheless I advice anyone interested to do the same). So in lieu of another resource I'll give you a generic version of mine.

1) Describe your strengths and weaknesses as a man as it pertains to seduction. You have to know what your "team" is good and bad at to win. Be honest, lying to yourself will get you nowhere. If you don't know what your strengths are that is a sign you lack experience and/or self-confidence (read more on inner game and get out there), and feeling like you have no weaknesses is usually a sign of inexperience and/or hubris in my experience.

2) Understand the strengths and weaknesses of women, both in general and specifically (each girl). This seems super hard, but it's not. You're not going to know what sort of defense you're going up against unless she is extremely transparent (and most women are not unless they're drunk lol, women for the most part have excellent play calling skills lol). Go on here, learn some things on compliance tests, body language and the like. The point isn't to know what they're thinking, but just finding those IOIs and going with them when you find them (note some IOIs are fake, just like some defenses are geared to look one way and then shift into another). Think of it this way: Does Peyton Manning know what defense the D called? No, but he gets an indicator (like an IOI) that the defense is going to blitz/man up/zone out and he knows what to do accordingly.

3) Take what you know from step one and two, and figure out how to make it work in your favor. For example I go after girls who like nerdier guys because that's what I am and that's what works for me. If you are a skinny guy go after girls who like skinnier guys. I know they're not going to tell you they do (though sometimes they will which is like an Easter egg) but that's where step 2 comes in.

4) Improve yourself in ways that will help you. Superficial means like money and muscle are great and all and they do work somewhat (plus for the most part anyone can get them which is great). But this goes much deeper. Seddit is AMAZING for helping out in this element. I could write a thousand articles on this and still only scratch the surface. The important part is to not only learn but implement the strategies learned.

5) Come up with plans for specific situations. Like a two-minute drill, if you will. What do you do when you take off a girl's shirt and she goes cold? What about after you get her number? Once again Seddit really shines here.

6) STICK WITH YOUR GAME PLAN. Don't ditch it at the first sign of failure. No good coach does that. Just stick with it, adapt and move on. Evolve, don't retract. It takes more than one three and out to determine the whole offense sucks.

Note just like Mike Tomlin vs. Bill Belichick your game plan may differ yet still be equally effective. Also I wholeheartedly believe you should WRITE YOUR GAME PLAN DOWN! That's the most effective way IMO to make the game plan concrete. Put bullet points in your cell phone so if you're in the bar you can "Check your texts" and remind yourself of what you're doing. And remember also to actually try and implement your plan. Don't just show up and try to react to what she does. A team doesn't win if they're constantly playing defense. Push your game plan and make minor halftime adjustments if needed (I wouldn't make any halftime adjustments until you've approached multiple girls, though). And remember just because you get a number/a kiss/laid doesn't mean it's over. It means your plan worked in the first stage. Keep your game plan up and keep going. The game never ends, it just becomes easier the longer you know who you're playing with.

Also note that a game plan for seduction is SOOO MUCH easier than formulating a business plan or coaching strategy. Why? Because unlike those two many women want you to win. But just like playing a friendly game of Madden with your buddy, you're not going to roll over for him just because he sucks. You only want him to win if he deserves it. Also note to act like you've won/lost before. You wouldn't get pissy and resentful if you lost to him in a game, so don't do it to women. They're just providing a challenge the best way they know how.

That's it. :-) The last thing I'll say is if this is too much for you don't do it. There are billions of guys who have gotten girls that didn't look at it this way. But I'm a thinker, and for me the mental engagement of looking at it this way makes the chase so much more interesting and fun. When I keep things simple it's boring and not mentally stimulating, but when I create my game plan and go with it, I enjoy all the now-significant nuances of the chase. Your game plan can be as simple or complex as you want and still be a good one if it works.