So as a guy who has been making pushes in my inner game over the last few months I've really made some progress. Since coming here I've found out there are some concepts that seem to make more sense to me after visiting here, and they stretch beyond meeting women.

For one, inner game is just about internal seduction. Not in the sense of making love to yourself (though you can do that I'm sure, just don't tell me about it. :-) ). And not in a, "Become infatuated with yourself," way either. But on an emotional level when you start to maintain a healthy level of love with yourself you'll see things open up. Life seems easier, more rewarding, and overall more satisfying.

There is a downside, though. It's possible to become narcissistic if you go too far (kind of like one-itis for yourself, lol). But even then as long as you love those around in a healthy balance it shouldn't be a problem.

So if you're having inner game issues, approach it from a Seddit viewpoint. Do you really love yourself for who you are? If not, why? What would it take to honestly change that (hint, finding some passion in life and going after what you want is intoxicatingly attractive to both women and yourself). Is there anything superficial you think would make you happy (money, a nice body, etc.)? Do you think you can be happy without those things, and do you have to wait til you reach a certain goal to be content with who you are? Do you think if you are happy you will change for the worse (like you're hard on yourself to keep from fucking up too much)? Do you really think that's necessary? And finally, do you tend to focus on what you don't have over what you do (You'll always feel broke if you think about what you don't have).

I'll stop there. Everyone is different and requires a different strategy. But I'm serious in that I really believe you have to find yourself attractive before others will. I hope maybe approaching the self improvement aspect of Seddit from a different viewpoint may open up some doors for those who keep looking at themselves like an unsolvable puzzle instead of as an emotional, dynamic human being deserving of the self-love and affection everyone is.