On tinder, A girl who likes a lot the red wine, I tell her "I would like to have cultivation of vines" kwnowing that see play along with me that role.

She says "me too, it would be good". Then I write her " we would make wine together by treading the grape ". I think is a weird but effective role play. If she sympathetically denies it then say "then you pick the grape that I already make the wine ". Variations are infinite

pd: Sorry for my english, Im not english speaker