What frustrates you?

SyrusDrake · 2017-06-29T23:08:31+00:00

That I've spent 26 years of my life believing that you respect women by never touching them, never being overtly sexual with them. A gentleman, I was taught, only appreciates women for their internal qualities and if you are physically attracted to them or, heaven forbid, acknowledge openly that you find them attractive, you're a shallow, sexist pig who perpetuates "rape culture".

coolsummers · 2017-06-29T18:51:43+00:00

not knowing what to say to create attraction and make her interested in me.

Running out of things to say shortly after opening and the feeling i'm talking too a brickwall

Struggling with any sort of transition ; On the rare occasion I'm getting at least 'some' interest back, I never know how to move it forward. On occasion I'll try to be brave and 'just go for it' and it startles her and I get a harsh, embarrassing rejection!

savagesteve_13 · 2017-06-30T00:44:35+00:00

What frustrates me is that women rarely know what they really want.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-06-30T01:32:12+00:00

Turn offs for me.

Always on phone
Attention whore
Not being honest/wasting my time

natephant · 2017-06-29T18:59:36+00:00

I've gotten really good at it. To the point where I basically don't need to consume content to improve or even continue to be successful. I'm on this sub mostly to try and help others.

That being said I am still frustrated at the NEED for this. The fact that unless you're incredibly attractive and well off you have such a fucking handicap when it comes to women. A girl can straight up work at Starbucks and be the most basic chick ever, and still pull 60k IG followers and have pro NBA players hit up her DM, and then be set for life. And it frustrates me that when I talk about this I get shunned, told to chill, get called a neckbeard etc. it's like... no I actually do very well for myself both with women and in life/business because of these skills I've developed. IM going to be just fine.

So I deal with this by having what I call an "intentional off night" to blow off steam.

I try not to get too far into the whole r/men'srights stuff but I just shut down women's bullshit and call it out for what it is. Kind Of like neggin but for actual legitimate reasons and not stupid bullshit ones, and with no intent on spinning them later. I will say that about 60% it does end positively with them basically having an eye opening experience. The other 40% usually ends with them trying to get me thrown out of the bar.

onfire9123 · 2017-06-29T19:56:35+00:00

Women are just too scared to live their life like they want.

Title	What frustrates you?
Author	joeykj
Upvotes	7
Comments	24
Date	June 29, 2017 5:39 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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