I'm currently in the grieving stage of a failed talking stage. This girl clearly liked me and wanted me but I ended the whole thing over something super stupid & small. I tried to get her back the next day and she didn't answer my calls & texts at all. We ended up speaking again on Valentine's Day but no progress other than talking about why I ended things & how much I regret it. I've been trying to fix what I messed up over the past 2-3 weeks but it isn't getting anywhere. During this 2-3 week period, I've been heavily depressed & unmotivated and it's been interfering with my everyday life.

Now I'm at a point where I have somewhat accepted the fact that we won't ever be together and I started looking towards the future. Most people when I explained the situation to them always reply "oh it's not that big, just move on" "there's so many more girls in the world" etc etc. Also given some advice to start dating more, going out, sleeping and meeting more women. But this whole thing doesn't excite me at all. I'm not interested in talking to multiple women at one time as I feel like it's too time consuming & just not me at all. I rather just get 1 good girl and settle down with her or be somewhat exclusive. What's the best way for me to move on?