Hey guys,

I've been practicing being more smooth/witty/calm in my conversations both in person and through text by making random plans over Tinder, and the past two "encounters" I've had, after a bit of petting/kissing or even just chatting I've had two people essentially ask the same question.

"Do you do this a lot?" (after kissing/petting in the car, but hesitating to move forward with f-close) and "I bet you have tinder dates lined up for you, lucky guy!" (just over text)

I'm not exactly sure how to interpret that. Is she trying to see if I'm a player? Or is it a subtle ioi? Or impatience in the first scenario?

From what I understand, it's attractive to be thought of as experienced around women, within the boundary of actually coming off as a ingenuine. I can be pretty smooth, but I hit a wall when it actually comes to the f-close, so there's that.

Thoughts?