We’re about to look at something that will change your view of women and what they really want from men.

Most men find women confusing, and strange, but for some reason these guys refuse to take the time out to really study and analyze how women think and what they respond to.

However, I’m going to break down how the female mind works when it comes to attraction and dating, so you won’t have to go through all the hours of studying and trial and error I went through to figure this stuff out.

So, let’s look at some of the things that women “say” that they want in a man….

I’m sure you’ve heard women say stuff like….

“I want a guy good guy who treats me like a princess”

“I want a real man”

“I want a guy who is a good at communicating and expresses his emotions”

“I want a guy who respects me and knows how to make me feel good”

“I want a strong man”

“I want a sensitive man”

“I want a sexy guy”

“I want a man who is in touch with his feelings and it is not afraid to share them”

I’m sure you’ve heard women say stuff like that, but is that really what they want?

Most of the time a woman will says she is looking for a specific type of man, but if you look at her history of dating you will see that she has dated lots of men who are the antithesis of what she said she is looking for.

Isn’t that strange?

For example, let’s look at one of the more popular traits that women look for.

I hear women say that they want a “Real Man”, but what exactly does that mean?

The problem is that when a woman says she wants something, it may have a different meaning than what us guys think it has.

For example, a guy might define a “real man” as a strong tough guy who is serious and very mature.

Whereas a woman might define a “real man” as a man who has his shit together, is in touch with his feelings, an excellent communicator, confident, and has a lot of experience with women and knows how to make a woman feel good.

So, you need to understand that your meaning of what a woman says might be completely different from her meaning of what she says.

The second thing you need to know which happens to be a SECRET that most men don’t realize, is that women will say they’re looking for a specific trait in a man, but that man must also have all the other traits that she didn’t mention!

So, if a woman says that she wants a sensitive man, she may also wants that man to be a good communicator, dominant, loyal, funny, charismatic, and unpredictable to name a few.

So, if you’re a sensitive guy but you don’t meet a decent amount of the other requirements then you’re not the guy who she is talking about.

If you want a woman to feel attraction you must display a combination of attractive qualities and not just one. The specific quality she talks about doesn’t matter to her if you can’t make her feel attraction for you.

And women expect you to have those other qualities right now.

They’re not looking for a guy who has 1 attractive quality but has neglected all the other ones.

Another way to look at it is, just because you like pizza doesn’t mean that’s the only food you want to eat for the rest of your life.

You have other foods that you love and when you can eat all the foods that you love then you are happy.

So, it’s the same thing for a woman.

She has a specific trait that she really wants in a man, but there is also a list of other traits that are necessary for her to feel attraction for him.

So, the next time you hear a woman complaining about how she can't find a man with a specific trait, remember that she also expects that man to have a list of other traits that she hasn't mentioned.