I have been working on my confidence lately and it's helped immensely. Lately I have been working occasionally with this very cute girl. Tons of dudes hit on her all the time, I have just played it cool and professional. She gives me this "chopped liver" routine all the time where she treats me like, well, like I am chopped liver to her and like she couldn't care less about me, barely tolerates me, etc.

But it seems like she is trying a bit TOO hard to show her aloofness towards me. I had my suspicions and said a few things to her just friendly and then she did the hair toss bit. I caught her doing it, she knew I caught her doing it, and abruptly changed her manner to be aloof again. The other day I was working with her, she did the aloof bit, then suddenly got all chatty and friendly. I don't see this too often...but Dafuq?

Anyone ever watch the "crazy and hot" matrix video?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6o_s4UDLZ_g&t=253s&ab_channel=CourtneyRyan

well, she IS a redhead and her name IS Tiffany so maybe it's just crazy...

I don't get the "chopped liver" or "I hate you routine" too often but I just scratch my head. I never did get what that was all about. Is it she wants me to pursue her? She has a boyfriend and really, really likes me but wants to convince herself she really hates me instead? Of am I supposed to be picking up on some "hint" and doing something? Or maybe she's just totally mental?

Can anyone help me decode this one?