whats your tips/advice?

FlexViper · 2024-05-06T10:57:59+00:00

Had a few successful date usually girls who likes to go out and prefer going concert/live events these women are easiest to date but can be shallow and I would shit test you constantly during meet ups. But dating a shy girl who are introverted or prefer to stay home is the toughest one to date but they're sweet and loyal once you get through that introvert barrier.

But they are cruel if they reject you because there's no argument or closure not even a goodbye. The way they end it all is ghosting and making the other party confused like blue ticking you without any response for weeks and forever wasting your time and these time could had been spent on moving on and finding another partner.

one thing I learned is that when a women is interested in a guy no matter if she's shy or introverted she would meet him half way whenever he wants to go out and do stuff with her. Doesn't have to be complicated to ask a girl out for a meet up for drink or grab a bite at a nearby mcDs while chatting irl just have to be bold and ask her out in one sentence casually then see how she would react from there. If she kept making excuses or plays hard to get is basically not worth the mental energy to jump through hoops for her just move on.

Because I am currently dating a shy girl who's more shy than the one that ghosted and blue ticked me leaving me in dark for a month of confusion. She has social anxiety but I can see her trying or put in a little effort to meet me half way and insisted on hanging out at an art museum by trying to make our meet up last longer because at first it was about grabbing a bite at a nearby mcDs but now is a full on date from afternoon till night.

It goes to show how some guy missed the point in trying to ask a girl out and over think or over analyzing on what to say. Because if she's interested everything you say she would vibe

offinthewoods10 · 2024-05-06T08:10:59+00:00

If she’s not interested be polite and move on. “Oh no worries, have a nice day” or something like that.

General tip? Go live a full life, get off your phone and get off your ass and random opportunities will show up. Doing approaches just gives you the confidence and skill to take action and execute effectively when those opportunities come around.

You don’t want to be a anxious reck when you accidentally bump into your wife.

BMagic98 · 2024-05-06T13:46:03+00:00

This is a very wide question so I'll mention the most important things.

A rejection from a woman you just met is completely worthless, what can she reject if she doesn't even know you?
There are a lot of reasons why you can get rejected that aren't you fault, for example she could be scared, insecure, or think you're out of her league. Which sounds stupid but trust me, most women have no self esteem at all even if they look perfect and it does happen very often.
Women need to put some effort too and make some moves too, just because you're the man it doesn't mean you need to do everything. The minimum she has to do is to meet you and communicate with you, if she doesn't respond to you or she's not meeting you it could just be her fault so you don't have to overthink this and worry too much about this.
Try to understand women more and have empathy, if you can understand women properly then all the things I just mentioned will make more sense and you'll have the confidence to do the right moves because you already know what to do

SaaSWriters · 2024-05-06T12:26:07+00:00

My best advice is stop worrying about all these things. They don’t matter. Go out. Say hello to women you want. Tell them what you want to do next. If they’re down, you do it.

If not, keep it moving.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-05-06T15:12:21+00:00

Most techniques you read about are written by men who have not had sex with someone who would not want to make you throw up in your mouth in years. Ignore them.
Be someone she wants in her corner.
Skills (all skills) compound.
Skills need reps to develop.
The cycle is "try. look at the result..tweak. try again"

DrJulianBashirhere · 2024-05-06T17:11:20+00:00

The best advice I have is to picture who/where you want to be in 5 years and go headlong into that. Make a list of what you want in a partner and become that. People tend to like what they are like.

Title	whats your tips/advice?
Author	YogurtFuture2
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Date	May 6, 2024 7:57 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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