Where do I start?

ArMcK · 2010-09-14T12:06:24+00:00

Start with Neil Strauss' Rules of the Game and Mystery's Mystery Method. Also, look over there-------------------------------------------------------->

alexryane · 2010-09-14T14:11:33+00:00

Start by going out and getting into social situations. Almost everything you'll learn will be from literally just going out and trying. Most of the shit you read is useless, won't make sense until you've already experienced a certain situation, or won't apply to you because it just wont be your particular style of doing things.

ThrowawayPUA · 2010-09-14T15:06:37+00:00

You have to start at the beginning. Start by approaching strangers. When you practice speaking to strangers hundreds of times, it starts to become natural. You will learn what is natural for you.

RedErin and ArtMcK suggested The Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss. It has a system called the 30 Day StyleLife Challenge that might be good for you. It starts with daily exercises, the first one is just to approach 5 strangers in a day and say hello to them. I think the next day's exercise is to talk to 5 strangers in a day, but to record their eye color. This is so you get used to looking strangers in the eye. You can see it's a simple set of challenges to gradually improve your social skills.

RedErin · 2010-09-14T13:06:00+00:00

The 30 day challenge was made just for you.

SpasticusAutisticus · 2010-09-14T13:28:58+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ctoxh/new_to_seddit_check_here_first/

seddition · 2010-09-14T21:54:20+00:00

start with the gym. Adding muscle and increasing your test level will instantly boost your confidence, which will give you the increased confidence to approach. Success at approaching you gives you more confidence. The hardest thing is just getting started, because once you get the ball rolling its a giant positive feedback loop.

RobJudge · 2010-09-15T01:12:24+00:00

Hey man, I actually wrote a blog post about this. I called it the Ten Things a Newbie should do to get good (I'd just paste it in here, but it's too long for Seddit). Check it out here: http://www.robjudge.net/2010/03/the-10-most-important-things-a-newbie-should-do-to-learn-how-to-pickup-women/

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