Recent high school graduate here. I've been having some on and off self-esteem and confidence issues as of late. Some days I feel like the man and other days I feel worthless. Usually, I would get my confidence from how I dress since it's something I take pride in. The more well dressed I am the more confident I feel. Until now, I judge myself harshly and I really don't know why. I'm generally a laid back guy/introvert with no problem talking to and interacting with people, namely females. Perhaps i'm looking for validation elsewhere without knowing or maybe I should learn to take pride in other things. Anyways, im curious where do you guys get your confidence from ? Is it something(s) you can do very well ? Where you come from ? How many backflips you can do outside on a Monday with a 90% chance of rain ?

let me kno it would be greatly appreciated