Where to find abundance?

Atriev · 2019-12-08T18:42:55+00:00

I am 25 years old. Recently graduated.

Day gaming in the suburbs is a real struggle. The hot girls for some reason like to just stay home and never go out until nightgame or through dating apps.

Either you need to try daygaming at a local college/university or you need to incorporate nightgame and dating apps to your mix.

I have the same experience as you. The mall is filled with underaged and older women and no girls that are our age. Same with supermarkets.

WIA20XX · 2019-12-08T16:21:54+00:00

lives in the suburbs.

Move to the city.

Jettison your introversion.

GeeseCTM · 2019-12-08T16:24:11+00:00

Well you can keep giving yourself reasons why you can't succeed and why you're going to fail.

"I can't do this cuz I don't like that! I don't want to do that because I don't like that either!"

Nobody takes has the basics are fundamentals anymore. No one likes going to the f****** club to meet girls dude.

Even the guys that say that you don't like it, they just made themselves believe they like that because they're not really sure what the hell going the club is for. But back in the day we knew that going to the club was like a practice room.

Sorry, the reality is if you want to get a lot of reps in, you have to go to the bars and the clubs.

But instead of looking at it is, I don't like the nightclub and I don't want to go, it doesn't really resonate with me, you need to look at it as that's the place where you go to your boot camp and learn.

Because, sorry, day game is more like hunting deer. I mean, I hate to use such a strange analogy that makes it seem like a hunting game, but the reality is, if you're going out to meet girls during the day, it's basically going to be you find one set here or one set there. It's not going to be where you're bouncing off of girls left and right when you're going to take a long time to get a lot of wrecks it. In other words, when I would go out and do dating in I might see one set in about 3 hours that I wanted to talk to.

sometimes you can get lucky and maybe you'll go to A whole foods or trader Joe's or some other spot like that on a popular day like a Saturday or a Sunday and you might see a few sets in there. But, you can't use those like nightclubs because if you keep going to the same trader Joe's or whole foods and you're bouncing off girls left and right like a nightclub, there's going to be that girl who actually complains. It will happen. Even if your game is pretty solid you're just going to have to get one girl to complain and they will ban you from the store.

so you have to be careful in those environments to do everything under the radar so you can't get a huge amount of reps. You have to go in, you have to shop, and then as innocuous as you can you have to sort of see if you can open the girl, and make it seamless to the point where you remain under the radar, and still get things going with her to where she's interested.

So day game is more of a place to practice what you have already learned, not a place to learn new things. Yes of course you're going to learn new things but it's going to be a lot slower track. You got to go to the clubs if you want to get high reps. It's unfortunate but that's the way it is.

These dorks you see in the day game videos on YouTube, none of them are getting laid. That goofy quirky funny bouncing around clown on acid ship that you see them doing, and then they tell you that the girl likes them and all that s***, No. The girl isn't going to talk to them when they call.

Those guys are walking through big cities making asses of themselves.

Now let me say one exception which is if you're near a college campus. But at the same time, these are students who are studying and doing their thing and if you are getting blown out and coffee shop after coffee shop, again, you're going to get that reputation and they're going to start eye balling you.

These days, you can't even get kicked out of bars and clubs, but that's if you like me when I was in my early practice days and I would go balls to the wall lol. I would be pushing interactions to see what would happen, even with chicks who are rude or pissed off or drama queens or whatever. I wanted to learn something, and sometimes that would backfire in the girl would go tell some security or bouncer, and no matter what, in that case 99.9% of the time you're a guy so whatever she says even if it's complete bull s*** the bouncer is going to side with her because he wants a blowjob and if you white knights he hopes he'll get one.

It's funny, that even got to the point where one time I got kicked out of a club and I demand you to talk to the manager and The bouncer and tripped up the bouncer with his own bullshit right in front of the manager.

Again, that was a learning experience to me. I just wanted to find out what I could learn from the experience.

But, the chances of you being able to get a high amount of sets so you can learn a lot is only going to happen at night and chances of you getting kicked out of any bar or club are super super super super rare.

I have done thousands of interactions so that's what I'm saying. And I can probably count on less than one hand the amount of times that I ever got kicked out of a bar.

Tl;Dr - Stop whining. Acceptance is the key. If you want to get a lot of sets you really have to go to a place where getting a lot of sets makes sense and that's the club or bar. But it's for PRACTICE Stop taking it so serious.

Day game in MOST places is more refined and where you put into practice what you've already LEARNED. Yes you can learn in day game but it's a very slow roll.

Title	Where to find abundance?
Author	putcoolusernamehere
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Date	December 8, 2019 3:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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