Where to next?

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-05-01T16:14:45+00:00

Set up the next date and close. Dont text her unless she initiates after setting up the date

BozoCardozo · 2018-05-01T17:58:52+00:00

Like Kenic said, set up a date for a couple days from now (around 2-3 days if possible) for some sort of fun activity, something like mini golf, go-karts, ice skating, etc. Send her a text saying something like "Hey! I think we can both agree that needs to happen again. What're you up to this weekend? I've been wanting to check this [go kart track/putt putt course/ice skating rink/etc.] for awhile now"

Just let the date take its natural course. It sounds like you two had a good time, so the second date should be way less pressure than the first. Don't get into your head; stay in the moment with her. There's no pressure unless you create pressure. (Sometimes a little akwardness/tension in the air is a good thing if you can show her you're not afraid of awkward silences by powering through them like it's nothing. Eye contact works to your advantage in these types of situations.)

CharmFormula · 2018-05-01T18:45:15+00:00

Knowing what to do next takes experience most of the time. If you can think one step ahead of where you are in the process this will help. Dont think "I need to get her into my bedroom" rather ponder "how do I move her from the movie theatre to the front of the mall" Break down the steps into smaller parts. Baby step her from one location to the next. Keep in mind that every "move" can be a few meters.

Murfdigidy · 2018-05-01T22:19:33+00:00

Dude you hooked up stop over thinking it. Text her next day, which you did, good. Then wait a few days to set up plans for next weekend. If she's busy say OK cool have fun and act like nothing happened. Don't say ok np what about next weekend! That's desperate. Play it cool and she'll be cool, play it too aggressive she'll flee.

But stop over thinking, you guys hooked up, awesome. Play it cool fonz things will work out

The_Reddit_Jester · 2018-05-01T19:01:03+00:00

You're already failing because you're asking this question.

Title	Where to next?
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Date	May 1, 2018 3:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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