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[–]iamjosan 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Depends on what your goal was. My goal was to get laid more.
I achieved that by becoming better-looking and talking to as many girls as possible every day.
When I first started, my goal was to meet at least 10 girls per day.
Now I talk to girls everywhere I go.
Another thing that helped was pushing my boundaries. That included talking to girls in different scenarios such as girls with friends, girls at the gym, girls at bars, etc.
It also included trying to pull girls faster. Making out with them faster. Pushing my limits.
[–]ThisPlaceIsNiice 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
Hey, I'm not OP but can you elaborate? I'm interested in knowing how your journey went (how hard or easy it was for you as a beginner, your experiences during interactions, how much success you had at 10/day rate and so on). By "talk to girls everywhere you go" you mean daygame, right? I'm interested in your experience on this specifically.
[–]iamjosan 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
TBH it was really hard. This tested every part of me as a person. There were good days and there were bad days. I learned a lot, met a lot of different people, made some really good friends, and fucked a lot of girls.
My initial goal was to fuck 1 new girl per month and I ended up surpassing that by almost 4x. In one month, I ended up fucking 7 new girls! In 2016, I fucked a total of 39 new girls, all from daygame and bars, no dating apps.
It was a crazy time but one that was worthwhile and one that I would definitely do all over again if I had to.
These days I don't go out and talk to as many girls as before but I still get laid just as much. I think it has to do with the fact that I'm way better looking and that I have an abundance mindset. I'm not sure though.
But if you want to get laid consistently, it's totally worth it.
[–]ThisPlaceIsNiice 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Awesome! I'm so happy for you! You really deserve it for the effort you put in. This takes such determination to do. Thanks for telling me about this, it's greatly motivating and informative. I think "testing every part of someone as a person" hits the nail on the head... Do you mind talking to me about your experiences for a bit?
First: I'm wondering what culture you live in. I've been daygaming a bit and some cultures are way more open towards being approached on the street than others. From my limited experiences, the cultures where chatting with strangers is not frowned upon are most open towards it. So in South America you can have a lot more success than, say, Germany. Have you tried different cultures, too?
Second: I'm wondering how you have the time to sleep with so many different women in such a short period of time. Do you only hook up once and never talk to them again? Or do they not want to see you again afterwards? Most of the women I sleep with from Daygame want to see me again, so once I got 2-4 on a rotation, I'm pretty much set for a while. I simply cannot accomodate more dates because I have 4 hobbies and a fulltime job occupying my time. Can't fathom how you can deal with 7 new ones in the same month combined with the ones you already have on rotation.
Third: You have very precise numbers. Do you record data for statistics? I want to start doing that, too. What data do you record, do you have a sheet? So, when you started out, you approached 10/day (300 / month) with the aim of getting a new lay per month and surpassed it greatly? How good was your game before starting out? Wondering how high your beginner approach to lay ratio was.
Fourth: you rock ♥
[–]iamjosan 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hope I answered all of your questions.
[–]IAMTHESmoothOperator 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How good looking are you?
Seven girls in a month?
I'm good looking enough.
Yea I smashed 7 girls in a month. I think a lot of it was just luck and all of the effort I had put in just snowballed.
[–]Funkimonkey 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've done over 1000. AMA
[–]IAMTHESmoothOperator 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Please do I'm interested in this. I myself am at 300 plus with no success.
[–]bournit 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here man! After I begun some months ago, I'm reaching 100 apps, and I start seeing some - not precise, but understandable - patterns. I'm a beginner in this field, but I'm really enjoying this journey !
I've noticed that daygame is become day by day easier , and it also helps "nightgame" and "social circle game" : is basically helping me A LOT in having the right confidence with girls , everywhere.
The most difficult things I think are not to think you're the only one that practise it, so here we are , and not to talk to much about it to people that are not interested to it.
From which time are you in cold approach ? Do you go direct or not ? Do you feel you've changed since the begin ?
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