I see so many guys on this sub asking how to get a girlfriend, or why they can't get one. If these are the types of questions you are asking, then you shouldn't be focusing on them. This isn't directed towards people who are constantly having ONS and just can't keep them emotionally. This is for the guys who have barely spoken to girls and yet, are asking how to get a girlfriend.

Someone in your position should be bettering themselves. Be it lifting, eating right, confidence.

You should be just interacting with girls, guys, building social circles.

Why do you specifically want a girlfriend? Do you think the version of yourself is better when he has a girlfriend? What about a guy who has the confidence to talk to ANY girl? And have girls be wondering if YOU like them back. Learn to walk before you can run.