Why do I keep falling flat after a successful approach?

youenjoymyself00 · 2016-03-20T19:42:52+00:00

Gonna have to see those text convos

SSJZoroDWolverine · 2016-03-20T19:47:43+00:00

Based on my experience, it's probably because you're not expressing yourself the same way through text the way you were during your interaction when you approached her so it's incongruent and you might be coming off weird. For example, you might have come off as this funny, exciting guy when she met you, but then you're texts might be coming off like you're trying to be cool and mysterious.

DaygameCoach · 2016-03-21T01:25:51+00:00

Set up the date on the initial meeting. If you can't do that...use the text to set a meeting up. That's it. You can use call back humor or banter...but set the meeting up quickly.

JewJutsu · 2016-03-21T13:43:37+00:00

I have the same exact issue as you. When it comes to texting, I just can't not respond and a part of me takes it personally when I don't get a response (even if it's miniscule). I just accepted that I do better in person than in texting. Like, I keep hearing about guys getting nudes from girls and I just can't get that...ever.

Monikerss · 2016-03-21T07:50:57+00:00

Never ever apologize, and if they don't respond let it be. You come off as way to needy in those texts.

2016-03-21T12:33:56+00:00

Text game is bullshit. If the girl likes you then she would see you again. If she doesn't like you then I dont even need to tell you.

Title	Why do I keep falling flat after a successful approach?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	11
Comments	18
Date	March 20, 2016 6:46 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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