why do we guys overthink ?

WIA20XX · 2019-07-27T17:11:43+00:00

Guys tend to "under act" more than overthink.

Dracron · 2019-07-28T00:05:10+00:00

Outcome dependence. We tend to fear the answer "no", because it means we don't get to what we want, when you never get to do what you want if you don't take the chance. However, if you get a no answer it means you can move to the next girl faster and you're not wasting your time thinking about it.

It mostly that when you see a girl you want, you immediately fantasize about her. Then, a "no" answer is the end of that fantasy. We want that to be a reality. So, we will think and plan to find the perfect words, while not realizing there are no perfect words, but there are missed opportunities. Its part of the perfect solution fallacy, thinking that we have a problem (getting them to date/sleep with us) and that there is a perfect solution to that problem.

This is the main reason for one of the steps being 100 approaches, is to get you passed the overthinking stage at the beginning.

If you're asking why we overthink things in general, well, its still usually the perfect solution fallacy, but mostly thinking is what humans do and has made us the top of the food chain. So, we hold it in high regard, because a lot of things are better when you apply your mind to it. Part of being an adult is figuring out the balance between acting and thinking.

ManyCountry · 2019-07-27T17:08:27+00:00

Overthink on what ?

sinbad2011 · 2019-07-27T23:12:45+00:00

cuz we wonder why all the time when the why does not matter. Why is poison. Changing how u feel is best. changing your pattern is best. thinking why does not change how we feel. we stuck in that state. so we have to snap out of that patttern and change how we feel.

humans are not logical, we emotional.

if u in ur head, do jumping jacks 2 get out of that patter. same iwth depressed.

Title	why do we guys overthink ?
Author	chillindude44
Upvotes	3
Comments	14
Date	July 27, 2019 5:02 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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