Why flirting is so easy in chats??

senseofphysics · 2025-03-22T19:16:50+00:00

I’m the opposite. I can do better in person because I had way more practice, and I think I second guess myself less. Also, I can better read body language and tone in person, but via text I second hesitate and have a difficult time conveying my emotions or gauging hers. Any advice for me? Lol

lazy784 · 2025-03-22T19:04:51+00:00

Cause you have time to reply and no pressure. No audience around if you say something wrong and she gets offended or mad and embarrasses you for it. In person, there's pressure. You have to reply quickly. You have to think on your feet and not say the wrong thing. You can't ask your friends for a good reply.
You need to figure out what is making you blank. Is it because you don't have the experience? Or because you have anxiety? Or a bunch of other things. Think back to your last in person mess up and let me know.

InstructionsUncl34r · 2025-03-22T22:55:52+00:00

Brah this is the opposite of me and most people I know. With talking in person I’ll just say things in the heat of the moment, on text I have more time to think and get in my own head

dogstarfugitive · 2025-03-23T07:24:22+00:00

In person be memorable, say whatever comes to mind. Smile, eye contact, a light touch on her arm, make her laugh. This wildly cute girl I met tonight laughed, held onto my forearm for 3 seconds, then she joked that she put something in my drink to make me pass out so she could take advantage of me while I was in the bathroom. I went to take a sip and she said 'no don't drink that!' I sipped it and she screamed loudly 'Nooooo!!!!' Her friend was like 'what are you screaming about'. She was pretty funny.

thot4444 · 2025-03-23T05:41:40+00:00

im the opossite bruh

Dandys3107 · 2025-03-23T06:28:22+00:00

I guess you just need to get use to more tension and more senses involved. Point to start would be about practicing corresponding body language, you need to stay relaxed, control your breath to be able to articulate yourself properly and pay attention to mood and emotions. In real life circumstances you can’t really take your time to figure out the nicest response, so you should focus on getting yourself into so called flow state, where you are feeling the best and naturally come up with ideas. Also, it’s important to keep your mindset and goals clear, you don’t really want to keep talking, you met because you wanna escalate your mutual intimacy, if you are clear with that it should be much easier to navigate your interaction.

somethinlikeshieva · 2025-03-24T00:37:43+00:00

I still don't know how to flirt, at least I don't think I do. That's why I always try to push for meeting in person and not text too much

Wannabe-Nobody · 2025-03-23T21:07:02+00:00

because the boobs are not on my face

theupside2024 · 2025-03-25T01:02:45+00:00

I find the opposite is true for me. In the moment I can be more of a flirt. My eyes can go to work. I don’t need to say much. Online I reread and rewrite before I send. Think it out too much. Change it. Delete it. Rewrite it. Ugh.

vxllvnuxvx · 2025-03-28T05:43:05+00:00

I was like you until I learned PUA. The answer to this is to do club game every weekend, approach 1-3 girls each time, stay in set, and practice sexual banter for at least 10-30 minutes per set.

iloveyoumiri · 2025-03-24T07:39:22+00:00

I get overstimulated looking at a beautiful woman, I can only focus on so much. Text is much easier

Title	Why flirting is so easy in chats??
Author	MRwritr
Upvotes	16
Comments	16
Date	March 22, 2025 6:44 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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