Why is it that whenever I express my emotions, a girl gets turned off?

YennoX · 2016-05-16T07:56:54+00:00

Because vomitting your emotions is something that women do. How will she be attracted to you if you act more like a woman than she does?

FutureLuca · 2016-05-16T08:09:33+00:00

If you're explaining how you feel to a girl and she doesn't like that then forget about her. She's clearly not open minded or she's clearly not interested in anything but herself. Some girls can be a ridiculous sometimes but don't beat yourself about it, its their loss, not yours.

Big_TX · 2016-05-16T19:31:30+00:00

Dude you need to give examples instead of a sentence that has vague implications in order to get helpful replies. People are intripurting you question different ways.

You last sentences leads me to think You are saying how much you love her of how much she means to you too early. Is that what you meant? if one person is wayy more on to the other. It makes the less emotionaly invested one super uncomfortable and it makes them feel bad. And it's a weird situation. AND men generally talk less time to get invested. If you get invested really quickly that generally means you have fewer good options which demonstrates a lack of preselection

Bodegaz · 2016-05-16T09:56:23+00:00

Because she probably doesn't feel anywhere near the same yet. I've showed emotions and even teared up/cried a little during a serious relationship talk before. It's normal to have emotions, it depends how you express it. Also, it takes mad courage for a man to show his soft side. Be proud of yourself for taking the leap. If she finds it unattractive that a man has emotions then she will probably hop from Chad to another Chad and eventually wonder why she can't keep someone good.

Bradovoxo · 2016-05-16T09:30:31+00:00

Sure you can be emotional if that's truly the type of person you are. If it's real it will come out anyway. If you are trying to be emotional because you've heard that's what girls like or want it won't work. Girls can sense when it isn't real. My advice is to just be fun. You'll have a lot more success doing that. I always try to be the guy stuff "just happens" with.

allupinthevip · 2016-05-16T13:03:50+00:00

Being emotional is not a bad thing. There's just a time and a place i.e. not a club or bar when girls just wanna have fun not be serious and shit.

Title	Why is it that whenever I express my emotions, a girl gets turned off?
Author	TigerChirp
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	May 16, 2016 6:38 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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