Why is OLD so much easier than warm environment for me?

norwegiandoggo · 2025-03-08T08:17:03+00:00

Why do you feel empty and sad after your hook-ups?

The women at uni reject you for various reasons that we cannot determine. But on OLD - the women who like you are swiping on you. So if they're a match, the chances are automatically higher that they like you than when you hit on someone random.

You might also have a low status or bad reputation at uni.

Given how easy it is for you to hook-up, it's extremely unlikely you have autism.

prankd1776 · 2025-03-08T17:23:30+00:00

If you feel empty afterwards, why go for hook-ups?

TransitionNormal1387 · 2025-03-09T00:15:50+00:00

Because unlike most guys you have a good profile that can get results. I’m guessing that you’re lowering your standards a bit too like most guys who get a lot of play off the apps so that might play a factor into why you’re not feeling good afterwards. Or you realize that casual sex isn’t fulfilling, which tbh isn’t for most guys at least long term. As for approaching if you’re in College I would highly suggest you build a social circle of people and participate in extracurricular activities. Cold approaching on campus can be great but it also might hurt your status if you’re weird about it and convey you have no friends, which in College you should prioritize anyways. Focus on having a fun flirtatious vibe, in your own way. Be willing to express yourself freely and you’ll convey an attractive personality.

Eddiebell · 2025-03-08T19:42:24+00:00

What’s old

nordik1 · 2025-03-09T06:31:47+00:00

The answer you’re looking for is that the skills to approach irl are a different skillset than running dates from online dating

You have to treat it like it’s an entirely new pursuit because it’s not the same skillset. You have to practice it and in volume

Look up Total Obligation 371’s post on this

DarkLordGothSinner69 · 2025-03-08T10:15:18+00:00

How did u get good at online dating

CoachSlyDating · 2025-03-08T06:00:11+00:00

Approaching 3 times per week is not enough volume to get significant results. Frankly you should be doing 3-5 approaches per day minimum. Start small, baby step, and progressively push the interactions further and further. You likely have several sticking points that would be easy to fix if pointed out to you.

PeachFantastic9169 · 2025-03-09T12:49:33+00:00

Wtf is OLD

Title	Why is OLD so much easier than warm environment for me?
Author	drakeinmycar
Upvotes	16
Comments	21
Date	March 8, 2025 5:06 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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