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[–]JessePinkman88 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
First of all, alot of us here are not trying to just pick up women for sex, we are just trying to improve ourselves and achieve a regular dating life. To be ourselves yet still have options with quality women.
The question you should be asking is, why are you here if you are already good at meeting and dating women? Maybe your relationships are not as good as they could be? Maybe you settle for women you aren't really into?
[–]SL1NK2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm here because I was looking through someone's post history and discovered this subreddit
My girlfriend is wonderful and our relationship is fulfilling, thanks
[–]JessePinkman88 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Cool! This sub will probably bore you then.
[–]ZephyrBluu 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Seduction is mainly about improving yourself and then letting your qualities shine through I think. There are some psychological aspects though, like qualifying for example.
[–]SL1NK-2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
It just seems weird to treat people like objects to be won or something but I feel like I'm misunderstanding
[–]ZephyrBluu 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You can't treat people like objects because they realise they're being treated badly so nothing will happen. What makes you think this sub reddit encourages people to treat women as objects??? :P
[–]SL1NK2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Man objects was the wrong term. I know you're not all a bunch of womanizing creeps or anything! I guess I mean more, I thought you guys were sort of playing human interaction as a game but I think I understand it better now!
[–]ZephyrBluu 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Haha the thing with the interactions is if you don't know what you are doing its much harder than having some helpful knowledge, which I guess you could say is "game". It's generally not manipulative (Some things you can do are questionable), you cant force someone to be attracted you :P
[–]SL1NK1 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah it's mostly the stuff about being manipulative that I was wondering about, but I can kind of see now it's just about making yourself more appealing. :)
[–]CS192837465 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
What is this?
[–]Dietyz 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think this subreddit is more about being desirable or having options by becoming the best version of yourself
When people look at you they should feel the same way they feel when they see ruby rose. When I was a kid I always really admired harrison ford, jeff goldblum etc. Many just wanna be that guy
[–]bl1y 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
But I've found that usually, if you're just a nice, respectful person, at least some women who have something in common with you will be interested.
Guys (and some gals) end up here because in their experience, just being a nice respectful person has resulted in zilch.
[–]SL1NK1 points 11 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Guess it just depends on your luck :)
[–]bl1y 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Or not. Or people say "I don't want it to depend on luck" and they go out and work at it to get better and take control of their lives.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're overlooking a lot of factors about yourself. Factors of character and personality traits. If your girl has ever felt attached to, turned on by you, or in love with you, then I know for a fact you are more than just a "normal nice respectful guy". You have more qualities than that.
What seduction material does classically, is it mimics the specific actions and words a man of certain attractive qualities might have. This formula has limitations. But for a person who's closer to clueless (socially inexperienced) it does provide a few hints to get started.
[–]chiliehead 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What appeals to you guys about playing romantic relationships like a game
This is in no way the reason why I´m here. It´s about improving yourself, being the best version of myself and just leading an active social live. Lots of people have no problem with socialising. But many guys have trouble reading body languages, lack experience, aren´t confident, feel introverted and are just plain clueless.
After reading the sidebar, I realized why I had success or lack thereof with women and now that I know how to improve, find more friends etc. I´m way more motivated to go out and socialise.
I consider myself to be open minded and non judgemental. There´s no difference in the worth of men and women, there´s not the one best lifestyle. But this subreddit really helps lots of guys and most of them (including me) just want a great relationship. I also like one night stands or anything between casual and committed, as long as you are honest with your desires nobody gets used and that´s it. Finding happiness in oneself and sharing it.
I know i got into "game" cause i had zero luck with women.
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