I went to my eye doctor today, I wanted new frames, but I was looking for some John Lennon-esque ones that I thought would be unique. She (the eye doctor) looked with me in catalogs and what not; we couldn't find it, but as I was leaving she said, "We'll e-mail you if we find them" wink

I never realized how much confidence winking contained until then. It seems to really connect two people in a secret room that only they know about. I use winks every once in awhile automatically but I never have felt it on the otherside