Without sounding like a pussy..

puaCurveBall · 2014-12-16T19:36:33+00:00

Try reading some sex-positive blogs, articles, etc. "The Ethical Slut" is a great book.

Is it wrong of me to want a girl that isn't so down to give it up

it isn't "wrong" per se, but I think it is due to false limiting beliefs and will fuck you up if you keep that idea.

Think about it, you WANT to be sexually attractive to girls, and you WANT them to want you. Then you want to punish them for it. It is fucked up imho.

You just need to get over all your false beliefs, and yeah it is difficult and yeah it takes time, but that is the way its gotta be.

mrsamdick · 2014-12-16T19:41:58+00:00

People like sex.

Women are people.

If that's too complicated for you then you can't be helped, sorry.

percpetionisreality · 2014-12-16T21:14:45+00:00

It sounds like you have already isolated and analyzed your problem. Out with the old view and in with the new, sometimes perspectives don't suddenly change because of an epiphany, it takes time.

gexxx007 · 2014-12-17T00:38:58+00:00

Everyone I know fucks a lot, guys and girls, I guess that in the environment I live and went to school, it was perfectly normal that everyone was fucking all the time, except for the ugly geeky dudes.

Smittyblack · 2014-12-17T02:45:33+00:00

I think the same way. I've grown up thinking girls should only have sex with one guy. I was shocked when I got to high school. Still trying to get over the fact that almost no girl's a virgin anymore at this point.

Radicalmattitude1 · 2014-12-17T11:51:36+00:00

It kinda freaked me out when I discovered this too. I think we live in a time where we are frequently in more open and honest dialogue. Like women are just not afraid to express their true sexual desires now a day. Traditional values usually present women as celibate, dainty and innocent.

This belief system is completely wrong. You'll start to find that most women are just as freaky and horny as guys. In direct contrast to common social conditioning, that's just the way it is. So I guess, just get used to it.

raiseurT · 2014-12-16T23:04:48+00:00

Girls are generally less horny than men. This is because biologically women get pregnant, men don't and thus sex has a higher "price" for women than men. This has changed though recently because of birth control but the point remains that women are actually less horny than men, maybe more than they used to be but still not much. This is why the seduction/pua scene is 99% men, because an average looking guy has to work really hard to seduce a woman while the average looking woman could easily sleep with one of the first 3 guys she comes across.

Title	Without sounding like a pussy..
Author	sedditseddit
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Comments	12
Date	December 16, 2014 7:30 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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