What I have learnt is that it is the woman that will do the choosing. Turning up is half the job done. Don’t focus on what to say focus on HOW you are saying it. Project confidence with a warm vibe and add a time constraint like ‘ anyways it was nice talking I gotta run.’ If she is feeling you will innately know and just go for the number close or instant coffee date ( providing she isn’t really doing anything).If not keep it moving - you will still be winning as you will have learnt something about yourself and added some valuable experience. On a personal level, I have had great success with store clerks recently. I will approach and ask something along the lines of ‘Hi what kind of clothes would you recommend to someone like me.’ ( more refined then this but just so you get the gist).They generally respond with positive enthusiasm and walk around the store with me saying things like this would really suit your body or how do you usually dress etc . Add a joke or two after and you are breaking up their boring day at work. This works as they are subconsciously checking you out and imagining you in an outfit which you will look best in. Its a physical and mental investment on their part.

An important note - this works for ME. You will have to play to your strengths and refine your approach and find something that works for you. Be cool and relaxed and speak off the cuff. Rehearsed lines is some PUA bull and women and so finely tuned socially that they can detect fake confidence or intention almost immediately. Let your aura project your intention - what comes out your mouth is not as important as you think. Actions speak louder then words! On a final note - maximise your looks by being in shape, optimise your haircut and wear clothes that fit your body type well. The key to having game is having no game. Don’t try to impress - if she likes you she likes you. Put your ego aside and don’t be focused on the outcome. I guarantee you will come across a lot mor confident and authentic- they will pick up on this, women intuition is real! Try it out and let me know how you get on ;)