Yapping?

hunterpua · 2025-11-19T03:33:55+00:00

People have it backwards.

Its not be mysterious = she gets attracted to you.

It's she's attracted to you = she thinks you're mysterious.

When she's attracted to you she will naturally wanna find out about you, and when it's not that easy to dig up info on you, because you don't post your whole life online, because your social circle has higher standards and doesn't just open up to everyone, then she will also naturally think you're mysterious even if you do talk a lot.

Think about what it's like when you're attracted to a girl. Odds are you catch yourself wondering a lot about what she's like.

And we know that there are creeps who stalk people they're attract to online too.

There's nothing wrong with being expressive as long as you balance it out with letting her talk and carrying her end of the interaction.

It's not rude even when you pause really long expecting her to keep talking.

Deliberately creating an awkward silence and waiting for the girl to try to pick up the conversation is one of the things I like to do at the beginning of almost every date to make it more fun for myself and no girl has ever thought badly of it.

And it's not just something for my entertainment, it also benefit's you to do things like that, because it incentivizes her to put effort into the interaction. And the more someone puts effort into something, the more they value it.

This is actually the biggest factor that determines how likely someone is to ghost you. The more effort they've put into you, the less likely they are to ghost you.

In the next conversation you have, try asking a girl a question, let her answer, and then just sit silently with a relaxed and expectant smile on your face, and watch as she just continues talking.

Alarmed_Box1198 · 2025-11-19T03:15:58+00:00

Tension by definition is a bit uncomfortable. Stop trying to make women feel so comfortable all the time in your interactions. I could be wrong but that type of people pleaser personality is probably behind the need to talk so much.

what595654 · 2025-11-18T22:43:39+00:00

Shut up, and start listening.

Don't just listen to what is said, but how they say it, along with their mannerisms. And ask questions based on all that knowledge.

A woman worth talking to, will have something to say.

garlopf · 2025-11-19T10:55:34+00:00

Being scared of silence is a choice. Practice looking into other people's eyes without saying anything. A good pause is positive. And like many others have said. Actually listening is worth gold to you. Imagine a general at war just spamming soldiers everywhere without sending scouts first.

Title	Yapping?
Author	PapiLordGus
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	November 18, 2025 10:37 PM UTC (8 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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