When listening to your girlfriend or a girl you just started dating, many guys focus on fixing her emotional problems and day to day struggles by giving advice or by trying to ease her emotions and lift her up.

Although the Intention behind this is good and this is definitely beneficial in long term relationships, it will make women you just got to know view you as more of a friend than the guy she wants to fuck and wake up next to in the morning.

For example, when your date speaks about her drama on the work place, don't say stuff like 'oh no, I hope you feel better now. Let me give you this and that advice'. Don't walk on eggshells.

Instead, just listen to her, view her as an equal human being and let her express and FEEL her emotions. You simply let her be without trying to change or fix her. Take her energy in UNLESS it becomes too toxic for you.

Say things like: 'damn, your boss/co-worker/friend sounds like an asshole'. Simply agreeing with her and doing this will make her feel more comfortable with you because she can be herself and open up without getting judged or anything.

Feminine women and men absolutely love feeling and expressing emotions. It is part of the feminine energy. They thrive on it and it is what gives them energy, what makes them feel alive and light up.

So by fixing her problems, you are essentially taking away the very thing that makes her feel good and alive.

The next time you are on a date with a beautiful girl, just sit there. Be in your masculine essence and be still. Dont put her on a pedestal, listen to her, appreciate her beauty and feminine energy and embrace the sexual energy that arises when you do this. Let it guide you.