Your average 19 year old virgin

sockthepuppetry · 2010-09-20T15:08:50+00:00

how do go about finding a girl that is interested in me.

Talk to everyone, especially if they're not hot girls. Being good at casual conversation with strangers is always helpful.
Talk to girls
Talk to girls
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Talk to girls

That's really the closest thing to a magic bullet there is: actually getting out and trying.

You're 19, you're probably in college (or "university" is that's what Aussies call it). Do a search through /r/seduction for any college-related advice like this. You'll find a veritable goldmine of good advice from people who know exactly what they did wrong at your age.

ihaveabu · 2010-09-20T19:07:30+00:00

Read this subreddit. lol

KINGCOCO · 2010-09-22T01:47:40+00:00

Don't use deception to get chicks. Give yourself some respect. Ya you won't get laid as much, but believe it or not there are some things more important than getting laid.

Wikchi, I was in the same boat as you and lost my virginity 20. At the time it seemed like such a big deal, but really it's not. If people are really giving you a hard time about it then just lie and say you had a one night stand, or better yet just say you'd rather keep your romantic life private.

alexryane · 2010-09-20T14:30:10+00:00

Don't get attached/obsessed/blindsided by any one particular girl. 99.9% of the time there's a thousand more just like her and I really doubt you met the 0.1% first time round. There are always more girls.
Don't make a big deal of it. Sex isn't special or meaningful, its just a fucking insanely great time. There's no reason to wait, there's no 'being ready' and there are no significant consequences.
Don't be afraid of lying if it will get you laid, and don't doubt yourself: you're almost certainly fuckable by the mere fact that you're a young and presumably healthy, educated guy living in a first world country.

Title	Your average 19 year old virgin
Author	WikChi
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	September 20, 2010 1:52 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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