Your Dad is the reason you are single.

7CloudMirage · 2025-01-13T19:22:35+00:00

brother... I don't think ur daddy issue is why people are single but ok

BarbarousJudge · 2025-01-13T19:58:53+00:00

Could be. My dad died when I was 10. I've never been a masculine guy and I've never had a gf. I think it's still possible to learn all that through other means but it's much harder.

Sporty_guyy · 2025-01-13T19:35:24+00:00

Just learn things now bro . Grown ass men blaming their daddy is for sure not seductive.

generaltso81 · 2025-01-13T19:45:53+00:00

My dad was the type of man you're describing and he bullied me into being an obedient kid. I had to learn all that stuff on my own by joining the army, playing sports and doing MMA.

HappySprinter · 2025-01-13T19:46:34+00:00

This sounds like you’re projecting your own family dynamic onto the world

Delicious_Teaching94 · 2025-01-13T19:18:53+00:00

You can always change this if you're self aware. Not everyone has an alpha father.

epimpstyle · 2025-01-13T22:02:52+00:00

It's easy to point fingers at other people instead of acknowledging that there is a problem and that problem needs to be fixed. If so far you have used a method and it has not worked, it is time for a change, you can't expect to do the same thing and get different results - this is the definition of paranoia

Remarkable_Fan6001 · 2025-01-14T04:06:42+00:00

Not that I agree, but one thing I can say is your parents affect how you view relationships and how you behave in a relationship.

brown_birdman · 2025-01-13T19:18:40+00:00

Not necessarily, can actually be the opposite. When you grow up fatherless, if your brain is straight you have to man up quickly and actually get out there, you become the protector... it all depends by whom you are surrounded by, at least in my opinion.

LegendaryZTV · 2025-01-13T19:24:10+00:00

What dad?

vladiVP · 2025-01-13T19:49:09+00:00

This is fax lol

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-01-14T00:24:27+00:00

It can be a major factor among others. I always say attraction and relationship-building start at home, ever since we were kids.

Some of my friends who saw their parents got divorced, they have a tendency to easily break up and get divorced too. A distant cousin of mine liked to beat up his girls especially when he’s drunk, one day I asked him why he always did that shit. He said growing up he saw his dad beat up his mom all the time so he thought that was considered okay. Other cases that I see: people who don’t have an opposite-gender sibling (all female siblings or all male siblings) also tend to have more difficulties to maneuver in a relationship.

I mean, of course I’m not making scientific conclusion or it has to be a repeated pattern, but that’s just my rough observation. I could be wrong.

Title	Your Dad is the reason you are single.
Author	Sketches558
Upvotes	0
Comments	26
Date	January 13, 2025 7:13 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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