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Your thoughts in this article about daygame?

TimeFireQuantum

August 24, 2019
4 upvotes
/r/seduction

https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/2019/08/239673/daygame-what-is-it

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Title Your thoughts in this article about daygame?
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TimeFireQuantum

Upvotes 4
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Date August 24, 2019 11:38 AM UTC
(6 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]Redgiant54 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If you dont like clubs or bars. What other options do you have? Tinder is a waste of time and sitting around amd waiting to get introduced to someone is going to take a while... if the girl isnt interested then she can walk away, whats the problem?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's suppose to happen by miracle duh. Like in every romance film.

[–]anon1moos 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like someone who is not a full blown anti-PUA but also not thrilled with them.

If you’re here, you shouldn’t pay any mind to articles like that.

[–]WIA20XX 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Chicks like to optimize every part of their ability to attract the right guy. Mostly their appearance.

If guys do anything to get better at attracting women, it's a problem. They want total control of all the possible sex out there.

Day game is the most natural and normal way to meet new people, period.

[–]SundaySermon 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm really curious to see what happens if daygame goes more mainstream.

But what's really weird is how this article seems to vilify the notion of casual sex. I get that the writer is framing daygame as a pseudo-romantic gesture, but a lot of guys are purposefully presenting it as sexual. In fact, I'm not sure of anyone acting like they want to marry the woman.

[–]TinderongKupido 6 years ago* [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

Problem with day game is the mass approaching. Imagine 20 guys in the street doing the same thing approaching every girl to gain experience. This is one of downside of emerging day game coaching system. The effectivity rate is going down due to this low quality approaches.

I honestly think that online dating will improve in this technological advance era.

An app for approaching will be invented. Real time meeting/ location based.

[–]SundaySermon 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Mass approaching and similarity of approaches. If every 20-year-old blond girl in San Diego hears she looks Swedish from every socially awkward dude who crosses her path, no one wins.

The goal for any guys who want to get good at daygame is to develop something that doesn't resemble game at all. Be able to carry a conversation. Be bold enough to talk to anyone on the street – not just the women you'd have sex with.

As for an app, I could see that. It would most likely be the more popular option, with a lower barrier to entry.

[–]smoothmax 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Amen.

Except the part about an app. My instinct is to say, apps' entire purpose is to lead people to think that they don't need to develop any of the normal skills that we call "human". Almost afraid to ask ... how would this app work?

[–]SundaySermon 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm not praising the app. I'm saying it's almost inevitable. It won't bear any relationship to daygame, pick-up or any adjacent communities. But it will feel like a more "real-world" way of meeting people.

My instinct is to say, apps' entire purpose is to lead people to think that they don't need to develop any of the normal skills that we call "human".

You're not wrong.

Almost afraid to ask ... how would this app work?

Like PokemonGo.

[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That could work as a kind of mutual consent but I think that not many women would install or turn on the app. It would feel like they're trolling for men.

Whereas true (?) daygame is like, excuse me I know you're busy and not thinking of guys at all and this is therefore very random, but I wanted to come and tell you that you look very attractive.

[–]smoothmax 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I could barely get past the word "heteronormative" in the first sentence. I think that's some kind of code word meaning, hey all you anxious and/or bitter women out there and insecure gay guys, guess what the white male oppressor is up to now!

Too bad that RooshV has to be brought into this. He doesn't even do daygame and his nightgame is a bit dysfunctional. Probably easy to find dysfunctional wannabe gamers in his forum.

James Tusk is a good counterbalance.

Of course the article veers off into complaining about the worst beta dweeb daygamers that they can find on twitter. As if we couldn't find bitter lesbians ... err I mean assertive non-heteronormative vagina bearers ... who tweet all kinds of shit about killing all men.

London may be over-daygamed even some PUA coaches have made comments about it.

The widely taught daygame technique will inevitably evolve to be more freestyle ... pretty much as soon as it becomes widely known and satirized. The same way guys in bars don't say, "do you come here often" and "what's your sign" any more.

TLDR: remember Yad's motto ... "When I daygame I'm just a beautiful man giving a girl a beautiful moment."

[–]SundaySermon 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

For guys like you and me? Sure. Daygame will just be a memory of early days, before we were effectively meeting women at dinner parties or at the DMV. Openers, stacking, etc. won't mean anything. We'll just be having conversations.

But those hyper socially unaware guys? That's not necessarily their goal. There are people out there who realize this and know they can sell them their formula for attracting women. I've run into two daygamers in the wild. One was going up to girls and asking which way was Starbucks. The I spotted from a mile a way, dressed in all black and wearing metal rings. And these guys have done over 1,000 sets.

I like Tusk (and his buddy Sam). But they are amplifying daygame and it's unfortunately falling on a lot of the wrong ears.

[–]smoothmax 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Did you follow their student Bhav lately? Maybe he's an example of the wrong ears.

They've been coaching him for like 2 weeks and I thought in the latest video he's still walking and standing weird, doesn't look relaxed or happy, folds his arms, goes into a rapid-fire job interview dialog, and comes up with a different, weird response every time when she says "I have a boyfriend". Instead of just gracefully smiling and saying, that's ok have a beautiful day.

Maybe he'll be an approach monster after 200 practice runs but maybe that's not good for male-female relations in the UK if there are 10 daygame coaches in London times 50 students per year times 200 botched approaches.

Then again all those guys if uncoached and not practicing daygame might be weirding out thousands of women in colleges and salsa dance classes all over the UK in a totally uncalibrated and incorrigible way, totally below the radar.

[–]SundaySermon 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I watched maybe the first video?

Honestly, your telling me that isn't encouraging. Sam has a great philosophy and is one of the few coaches with a professional background in helping people socially. If Bhav's improvement is that slow, I'm not optimistic for most of these guys.

[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It could be just me, comparing Bhav to experienced PUA infields which are lot less painful to watch.

James seems to consider Bhav to be a superstar, featured in 7 videos and apparently he got laid several times already.

It's a business and everything and getting a new guy laid a few times is great publicity. But in an ideal world he would have gone through a school of charisma or something for a few weeks before getting unleashed on live women in London. Lance Mason had classes like that a long time ago, and in the videos where the students are practicing they're only causing cringes in paid female coaches and the other class members.

James and Sam might reply, screw it women are not fragile flowers and he's not harming them, he's just being a slight nuisance under the watchful eyes of a coach.

[–]SundaySermon 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Charisma schooling is interesting to me. But I think it's less that they have an issue talking with women, and more that they have an issue talking with anyone. Daygame can be a much more holistic approach and attitude that encourages guys to be charming, even with the people they don't want to sleep with.

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