You're doing it wrong

Hemligyo · 2012-01-09T01:03:20+00:00

Would you like to go out sometime?

No.

Oh, thank you.

StarkNYC · 2012-01-09T04:02:06+00:00

As others have pointed out, he's shooting himself in the foot in many ways.

But, honestly, this is the first step. He's making approaches, being direct, getting over his fears, destroying limiting beliefs.

Add in some conversation, better dress, sobriety, and he'd be well on his way.

MidnightThunderboy · 2012-01-09T10:49:51+00:00

I couldn't finish the video. eeewww

Enthusizer · 2012-01-09T05:06:42+00:00

None of those girls have boyfriends. He is sucking because he isn't anticipating a positive response when he goes in.

EDIT: he's being bold instead of confident.. see #19 http://www.seductiontuition.com/tyler-durden/25-points.html

j994 · 2012-01-09T01:33:36+00:00

This makes me cringe after watching simplepickup

rmbarnes · 2012-01-09T14:00:02+00:00

I just watched this with no sound because I'm at work, so I can't hear what he said, but I can still tell where he's going wrong.

He's obviously going direct verbally, but his body language is slightly awkward and non committal. It's like he subconsciously doesn't believe his approach will work. He doesn't expect to close. In addition to this the smile on his face looked embarrassed.

SethMemVegas · 2012-01-09T17:05:09+00:00

This was beyond painful to watch.

maxormis · 2012-01-09T02:01:08+00:00

Yeah he gets shot down (most of the time pretty immediately), but what is he actually donig wrong? Looks come to mind (meaning fashion), trying to close to early and a begging kind of frame.

Still: Isn't Seddit's opinion on Daygame that you should be direct? Like everybody being a fan of SimplePickup f.e. That's what he's doing! He goes into asking for a date way to soon of course, but my guess is he is trying to get rejected to learn how to handle it and keep a positive attitude.

Anyway I also got a related question: What's your take on direct vs indirect day game?

I'm reading Daybang by Rooshv at the moment where he advertises being way more indirect in Daygame. What he says is basically ramble about situational stuff a longtime while dropping hints to DHV stories and make her ask for it, take her asking for an IOI and get into a routine of his to get her number.

Seems all more complicated and in your head then the usual "just tell her you thought she looks cute" advice for daygame floating around seddit and practiced by the likes of SimplePickup. Yet this video here shows what might happen if you go to direct..

So I was thinking about asking for your guys opinion about indirect vs direct day game anyway, but thought I should back it up with some FR first - but with this video of direct game fail, I'll just ask here.

Title	You're doing it wrong
Author	RyanOnymous
Upvotes	25
Comments	13
Date	January 8, 2012 10:36 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/o8g1e/youre_doing_it_wrong/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/youre-doing-it-wrong.1308114 https://theredarchive.com/post/1308114

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