Disclosing STD/I’s

saint-jezebel · 2021-06-06T13:51:24+00:00

Three dates is too soon to be disclosing personal information AND thinking this man is HV. You should vet him a tad longer; you may disclose something you really didn’t need to disclose. It’s also may be too soon to be talking or thinking about sex.

bananasplitchocodip · 2021-06-06T20:57:19+00:00

Too soon to disclose.

yoursultana · 2021-06-06T01:02:56+00:00

You don’t need to disclose it until you think you’d like to have sex. Then you should disclose it beforehand, obviously.

You don’t owe that information to a man who can go babble about it to everyone and anyone. I would only tell a man I trust fully and a man is more willing to accept it if he’s fallen for you and wants to commit to you. You don’t owe men your private details until at least 6 months.

Determinedblonde · 2021-06-07T13:09:45+00:00

I’m very sorry because I had a herpes scare and even just the thought of contracting it made me so upset because it limits your options. 😔 I’m sorry babe.

I think there are creams and things to make it harder for others to contract but with regards to disclosure, I would leave it months because you never know if this guy is going to tell everyone and then it will ruin your reputation.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-06-10T16:09:42+00:00

Only discuss personal information on a need to know basis. If you are going to be intimate then tell him. Be overly cautious because a shitty man could spread rumors and ruin any chance you have at finding a life partner. Only be intimate with HVM. Take at least three months to vet him properly to see if he is trustworthy. It will take a while to establish if he is HV.

Title	Disclosing STD/I’s
Author	bambii342
Upvotes	64
Comments	11
Date	June 6, 2021 12:21 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askFDS
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