My wife and I have decided to separate after 14 years. I don't think there is any coming back from this one as she is purchasing a house and I am refinancing our current one into my own name. Aside from all of that, I have a question. This is my 2nd divorce and after my first, I got back out there pretty quick, actually meeting my current wife. I don't wan to do that again, but do feel the need for some physical contact. I don't want a relationship though. How have you others managed this? Did you just 'hook up' for a while? Is that actually a good idea at this time?