First off I know I’m going to come off sounding like an idiot. However, I want to get opinions as my mind is racing and playing tricks on me about what I recently discovered.

First off my wife and I have been having issues since July and been on a trial separation since the end of August.

I have had suspicions that my wife has been cheating on me with a co-worker. Last week a friend who works with them was going for a run on a trail near his work. As he is running he notices my wife’s car parked down a dirt road and as he was running by he noticed two people in the car my wife and what looked to be the male co-worker I have had suspicions about. He continued to run past and head back to work. However, later on the guy I have had suspicions about is walking back to work from the location they were parked in.

Fast forward to this week my wife just recently had a birthday. It was not normal since we are in a trail separation. She decided she wanted to have a little “me” time and book and AirBnB out side of town. However, she didn’t want to tell me exactly where it was which concerned me for two reasons. 1. If something happened to her and she didn’t come back on the day planned I would have no idea where she was to have someone check on her. 2. It just sounds shady. Well she left for her two night stay. Come to find out her co-worker that I have had suspicions about is convienently also not in the office. So I start doing so checking on things and figure out where I think she is staying. I decided to hire a PI to go there and check it out. They do and they identify my Jeep and see the guy there and talk with him and see a blonde woman inside that identifies as my wife. Seems damming at this point. Well she recently posted a review of her stay (stupid) and the host posts back that her and her guests were lovely and welcome back any time. I want to confront her about potentially cheating but the guests part is throwing me off. The unit sleeps 4 but there is only one king bed. Also, she is lying because she said she was going by herself and obviously the hosts post reads otherwise. Am I overthinking this? This sounds like she is cheating right? I’m working on filing anyway but would really like to be confident in that she is cheating as well. Thanks.