Me and my wife (I'm 28 she is 27) have had our issues and are now separated. I work out of town with her father and have been for roughly 2 years. In that time I guess she found independence that she's never had before. We have guardianship of her twin sisters, they are both 17 now and had them in our care since they were twelve. In our marriage we have no trust, honesty, or commitment. I come home, pay for whatever she asks while she does very minimal (went to school for a year to be an esthetician and took her two years because she didn't go half the time.) I wasn't making enough at my previous job and she was camming online without me knowing for a couple of months and now she says she got fired from her job. She sends me some horrible texts about how she can find a man and we need to get a divorce asap cus she's wants to date a guy and all this bull, but then will text me and tell me she's going through it and loves me and realizes how much she needs me. I've been very manipulated, going okay I can work through this and I still love her, so I'm going to counseling and classes for my issues but she doesn't. I don't know what to do, I still love her and she was my best friend but I can't keep going like this but I also can't go back to the hell I was in before. She is keeping my dogs right now while I stay at my parents place, but it's been a month and I just feel so down. I have progressed my life by paying off all my debt besides my truck and student loan, my credit is getting better by the week but now that I've got that taken care of I don't have anything to focus on. I miss that connection even if it was God awful sometimes we always came back together but I can't trust her and financially she's the absolute worst. I just feel super depressed, I am walking 5 to 7 miles a day, eating healthy and doing my best to stay positive but I just don't know what to do now. Any suggestions, helpful tips or anything would be great. Thank you all and God bless you.