We’re going thru it and have a 50/50 parental plan that establishes holidays.

She gets thanksgiving this year. I get Xmas.

She tells me she’s taking the kids for the holiday and the days after, I won’t see them.

She asks for my plan for Xmas. I tell her I’m taking the kids for the holiday and the days after, she won’t see them.

She then tells our 10yr old that I won’t let her see them for Xmas and that she will be alone.

I get a frantic call about why I’m doing that.

So am I supposed to like give her unlimited access or something?!?!?