Where do you even start finding HVM?

heythere360 · 2020-08-28T18:53:55+00:00

The general answer is to level up and let them find you. When you are leveled up, not only do you frequent places that may have HVM, but you’ll attract more HVM in general - even if it’s OLD. Obviously due to the pandemic it will be nearly impossible to frequent any place with HVM (it was already tough before the pandemic). Now all we really have is OLD so do what you will with that info lol.

I’m a week out of a 4 year old relationship with a guy I’d describe the exact same, great guy was high value for a few years, but couldn’t give me what I needed in the end.

I’m very comfortable in my singledom as it’s been a long ass time since I’ve been single. Even though the dating market is trash rn I’m chillin cause I’m not pressed for a relationship.

Even dating for fun has sketched me out due to how insanely deprived men have especially been acting during this shut down.

I’m not sure if you’re older and looking to settle down soon, but I think you’ll save yourself a lot of heart ache if you set your expectations of men down on the ground where they should be and live your life for a full year not expecting to or even wanting to get into another relationship.

This is not to say looking is wrong by any means. But sis. The men out here are TRASH and if we can’t cope without male attention then we should gear up for a lot of bullshit.

I’d imagine most high value men are leveling up and doing the same. I’m on OLD to pass the time. I talk to lots of tall successful men who are dying to meet me. But...it’s a turn off. They’re bored and horny and I can’t trust either of us to not know the difference between a genuine connection or simply depravity on both our ends. I know I’m hot, smart and funny, it doesn’t take much for these dudes to fall in lust/ infatuation. We have to protect ourselves no matter how flattering the attention is.

I won’t date until I’m genuinely interested in the guy. It’s not the time to go looking for a husband or even a relationship imo. If you want something casual beware. They are humping and dumping like rabbits these days. Getting anything they can get their hands on.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2020-08-28T18:14:19+00:00

Take some time to yourself first! It’s too early for you to date. Treat yourself well for a few months, figure out your hard standards, and then based on what you want you’ll figure out where to find good men.

For instance, if you want a guy without kids, you’re not going to be looking for them at a playground. If you want a fit guy, you’re not going to look for him at McDonald’s.

ErikaNaumann · 2020-08-28T21:31:14+00:00

First step is to level up yourself. That includes stop seeing charlatans like psychics.

Second step (after you level up) is to go to places where hvm go.

curlygirl507 · 2020-08-28T18:16:05+00:00

Probably charity dinners and other events if you can afford them.

Title	Where do you even start finding HVM?
Author	gasolinedrinks
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Date	August 28, 2020 4:52 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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