My 2.5 year relationship recently ended. we’ve had to continue to try to live together but decided he would move out after some vicious arguments. These are the red flags I realize now thar i should have realized sooner.

-he never took me on a single date in 2.5 years. - never got me anything for Valentine’s Day, anniversary, Christmas, or my birthday. I got him a gift of $100+ for all of those. - frequently withheld affection from me - spoke poorly of my parents -couldn’t keep a job -had no goals

I’m so ready to begin healing and starting a life for ME, however I’m concerned that I won’t be able to have a functional relationship in the future. I wish I could go back to my 20 year old self and say RUN!!!!!