Guy, 32 here. I work in a corporation and on a daily basis I see females acting in the following ways everyday. Can anyone relate to these?
If you're walking in a canteen they'll suddenly cut in front of you. You need to stop. Every time.
If you're in a crowded lift they will still just walk in. They don't give a shit. You touch them accidentally then it's your fault (hasn't happened with me though but it's about their attitude).
They gossip endlessly. If you're in the lift you hear them bitching about their teammates, or making fun of someone or the other
When it comes to sharing team workload they don't give a shit. They constantly get assigned the most insignificant tasks or usually lesser tasks than their male counterparts because of the sympathy "oh she's a girl. I don't want to trouble her much". And yet they do a sloppy job out of it, needing help constantly.
They take an unreasonable amount of leave. Deal with it. There's one who's on 2-months leave, one on 11-months leave and another on a 3-months leave at my workplace right now. Their workload falls on onto their teammates who're helpless for all these months. While she can happily take a loss of pay because she's not the bread-winner in the family.
There's one in my team who's always asking me questions. I'm happy to answer them because she's one person who's doing a really good job. But she also discusses a lot of personal life issues. As a friend I help her out with advices / reassurances. However, she doesn't reciprocate this personal thing in the slightest bit. Somehow she's always busy with something or the other.
I joined a couple of classes too, one-at-a-time and interacted with girls there. It's not been a positive experience.
TL;DR/Conclusion: As time is passing I feel the love I had for females draining. I can't help feeling that they're "bitches" and I want to avoid them as much as possible.
Edit: that's a load of replies everyone. Thanks a lot for your support. I'm still going through the answers. Surprising that so many people felt the same way.
Edit2: Thanks a lot for the overwhelming response. This has been the most supportive experience that I have had on reddit. Thanks a lot to everyone for sharing their thoughts, experiences, advice and for all the validation. :)
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